Seeing Russ's family, I am feeling nervous.
I mean, I'm not staying for the baby shower. Why not?
I miss you so much, and I think I have an idea, so I can see you.
'Yeah?' We should go to another country
that you can go to without a visa.
In Grenada, we get to be more of ourselves, have a good time.
He has no plan to get from point A to point B.
What are you gonna do about the paperworks?
I mean, right now I'm not doing anything.
After I get married, Ashley's supposed to apply for the green card.
But she hasn't done it as yet. There's no point in applying if we break up.
Holidays are for families.
If anybody tries to push me around,
this is a way to show a person the door.
(ALL SCREAM) And coming up...
Are you dating anyone? No, I'm still flying solo.
My head and my heart, are telling me two different things.
You guys could've done like a...
..but he ditched out of that.
What assurances do you have that he'll actually marry you this time?
You could get a divorce and it wouldn't affect
the green card status.
She's getting her nails done.
Pao's an hour late.
How much more time do you guys need?
That's rude and disrespectful.
I'm gonna go in talk to the DA, kinda field out the negotiation.
Her getting deported would be for the best.
My dad has been basically paying for our entire relationship,
like, from the moment that you got here.
This is (BLEEP), that's what I say.
You two need to hash it out.
He stated that you started yelling at him and lunged at him,
and it says that you scratched him, that's what the complaint alleges.
But...
Right now, everyone's very nervous and very scared.
The worst thing that could happen at this trial
is that Larissa's arrested and deported.
I won't be going to court, because,
if I go to court with Larissa, I could be called as a witness
and I don't want to testify against her.
I'll be at work all day just waiting
for any news from Larissa.
We need to go. Yeah.
Yeah, I know, we need to get over there.
Ever since Larissa got arrested, she and I were fighting constantly.
There have been times when I thought,
her getting deported because of this may be,
it would be for the best. But Colt loves Larissa...
(SOBS) Oh.
Oh, it's 3rd street. It's not... My bad.
(LARISSA SPEAKING)
It's good to see you. Hello.
Morning. Nice to see you. OK, so you're all ready for the big day?
OK, so what we're gonna do now,
we're gonna go out in front of court room ADT, the elevator up,
I'm gonna go in talk to the DA, kinda field out the negotiation.
I'll come out and give you the update and then we'll go from there.
The best case scenario today is, the case gets dismissed and we walk out the door.
Worst case scenario is, she's found guilty to the charge and the judge sends her to jail.
And we have to deal with the deportation issues.
All right, you're ready? Let's go inside. We'll take care of business.
It's been a few days since Pedro
refused to come to Thanksgiving dinner,
and it really offended my family.
Is Pedro coming? Is he coming? Is he behind you?
(SIGHS) No, Pedro's not coming. Oh.
Since then,
things have been really tense between us at home.
But tonight, we're going out with some friends
on a double date.
It's gonna be nice finally seeing Cassie and Danny. Yeah.
She is married to a Dominican.
I am married to a Dominican.
No, we're not gonna do that.
Lately, every time we talk to each other, we argue
so maybe having another couple there with us,
to, sort of, lighten the mood would be good for us.
Hey, how are you guys? Good.
I know Chantel through some mutual friends,
and then we introduced Danny and Pedro
cos, you know, they had that same background.
Marinated pears, fermented cucumbers...
Yeah, right. (ALL LAUGHING)
Cassie and Danny are settled down.
They have three kids and a nice home.
But I know that it was a tough road
for them to get to where they are today in their marriage,
and some of the struggles that they have had,
we're facing the same things, too.
They just have a little more experience with it.
So, Pedro, how long have you been here now?
How many times have you been back since you've been here?
That's a coincidence that you bring that up, because...
Pedro is planning a trip to the Dominican Republic
and he doesn't want me to go with him.
Danny's gone three times by himself. Right.
But if Cassie wanted to go,
you wouldn't tell her to stay here if she wanted to go, right?
Oh.
Do you know how fast money disappears in the Dominican?
"Those shoes look like they're my size."
Cassie's relationship is a lot like mine.
Danny used to send money home all the time
but, eventually, he realised that
he needs to put his family first, and he stopped doing it.
Unfortunately, I don't see Pedro doing the same thing.
Maybe we could compromise, maybe you could go for a week
and then Chantel could come for, like, a long weekend.
You can't leave her by herself. Well...
I had to go to Thanksgiving by myself.
You didn't go to Thanksgiving? Why not?
We were just talking and you started yelling at my parents to shut up.
Would you ever tell his parents to shut up?
Maybe that was just a translation issue.
He said it in English.
And you ran around the table and attacked my brother...
OK, let me just ask you something.
Why in the world would you have ever... (PEDRO CONTINUES TO TALK)
..stood up at the dinner table
and slammed your fist on the table in the first place?
Why didn't you stay seated?
Are you gonna stand up here?
Are you gonna do a karate kick on the table here?
Those first years are so hard
and I think they definitely just need to stick it out
and work through it, not ignore it, they have to work through it.
(DANNY SPEAKING)
You need to be able to tolerate each other at arm's length
without having physical altercations at a dinner table.
That's great. Thanks for that.
The way Pedro is behaving
is embarrassing in front of my friends,
disrespectful to me, and right now
I just want him to go do it,
go ahead, go (BLEEP) somewhere.
Last call was a while ago.
We gotta get home to the baby-sitter. Yeah.
Hi, we have an appointment.
I'm gonna do that one there.
She's getting her nails done. She's running a little late.
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We just found out the sex of our baby
and we're really excited.
See my belly? Aw, it has started to show, huh? A little girl.
(GIGGLES) Hm? Yes.Mm.
We had a gender reveal party with my family
and we would've really liked to have Andrei's parents there
through video chat but because of the time difference,
we just couldn't make it happen.
So, today we're going to share the news with them.
Let's give them a call.
What do you think? Yeah. I think we should.
How do you say, "We're having a girl?"
(SPEAKS MOLDOVAN)
(TRIES TO REPEAT)
(MOBILE RINGING)
(SPEAKS MOLDOVAN)
Hello. Buona sera.
Is your mom here? My mom, she's working still.
It is very hard not having my family close to me
especially because we are having a child.
I haven't seen them for a year
and a couple of months. It's very hard.
(SPEAKS MOLDOVAN)
(GIGGLES) He says when he was younger, he was expecting boys.
Hopefully, they can both be here for the birth.
My family, my mom, my dad and my brother,
they have to obtain a visa to come to United States.
But I hope they're gonna be here for the child's birth
cos I'll be, like, sad
that I have to tell them all the time over the phone
about this kind of news. It's very sad.
Tell him we miss him a lot.
I really hope that Andrei's family can come visit soon
because he is super close to his family
and if he can't go there any time soon,
and then they can't come here any time soon,
it's like our lives are just continuing on without them
as if they're not even here.
Today is the baby shower.
I think Russ's mom is really excited to do this baby shower
but I'm really nervous.
I haven't seen Russ's family in like forever.
And I don't know what to expect.
Hi. We have an appointment.
Russ is at his parent's house waiting for me
but I decided to do my nails.
I'm gonna be opening presents so I want my nails to look cute while I do that.
This is last minute and, hopefully, I'm not gonna be late.
Am I too revealing with this dress? No.
I don't know, I'm just gonna try to enjoy and I have Kristine with me
so I hope everything goes great.
I'm gonna do this one and you're gonna do the...
That one there. Yeah.
Kristine is like my only friend in Oklahoma,
so I'm so glad she actually came.
Oh, my gosh, your phone message was hilarious.
It was almost like threatening, like...
"You are coming, right?" (GIGGLES)
Yeah, of course, I'm coming. Of course, I am coming.
I don't know exactly who is going to be at the baby shower
but I am so glad you are there.
I just have my reservations, that's all.
You know how hard it was at the beginning to get along
with Russ's parents, and we never had the communication,
I don't know if it's because of me or because of them.
I mean, it's a cultural difference.
I mean, he is from a small town in Oklahoma,
they don't find you here, you're loud and exciting,
and, like, say whatever you have to say.
And here, we filter what we say
like, the passive aggressiveness
is like super real. Yeah. (LAUGHS)
Like, I have that image from before, you know.
It's like I only have those memories from before...
Right. ..and they are not the greatest.
People were thinking that I'm doing it for the green card,
and that I just want Russ's money.
When I was living in Oklahoma,
I never felt accepted by Russ's family,
I always felt that they were judging me but,
since I got pregnant, I spoke a couple of times with Russ's mom
and she was so nice.
So, I'm really hoping that at this point,
I'm going to be able to fix the relationship with them.
(PATTY SPEAKING)
We sure do.
Yeah. Mm-hm.
Spoiled already. Looks good though.
Spoiled already? That's true. It's still coming though.
I love and appreciate everything you do. You're welcome. Welcome.
I'm excited to give Pao a baby shower
because we wanted to welcome the baby into the family.
But the journey in getting to know Pao has been a little rocky.
I feel that there was a wall that was put there between us
and I don't know how to overcome it.
Good to see you, Ryan. How are you? Good.
I'm feeling pretty excited. I'm looking forward to this.
I get to see my friends and family and celebrate our baby boy.
What's up, Judson? How are you? Good to see ya.
Long time, no see? Very long.
It's awesome being back home, it's a really good feeling.
And the guys are gonna meet me here before we head out
and play golf and spend some time together.
Where's Miss Pao at? She's getting her nails done.
So... God, it's been forever. She's running a little late.
It is a little frustrating right now.
I am surprised her nails are taking this long.
And my parents are not happy about it.
Where is Pao? Where's Pao?
I'm not sure. She was getting her nails done.
It's already been beyond an hour.
Wait for Aunt Pao. Wait for Aunt Pao. (KIDS YELLING)
People were asked to get here, like two hours early
so that they could mingle with Russ and Pao,
before the boys left to go to their event.
But Pao's an hour late
and that's not going very well.
Some people had to go to work, some people had to go other places
and they needed to leave.
I'm gonna call Pao real quick.
She's running way behind.
(MOBILE RINGING)
Hey, baby. How's it going?
I'm good. I'm just letting my nails dry a little bit.
Well, how much more time do you guys need?
I don't know. I'm supposed to be heading out
and I wanted to see you before I left but I'll try to wait on you, OK?
Yeah, don't go without me.
But tell me how much time do you think it'll be?
I don't know. I will see you there. Just wait for me.
OK, bye-bye. OK.
It's very frustrating. My mom has put a lot into this baby shower.
And with her being late, this is not helping
mend Pao's relationship with my family.
Pao is always telling me that
this is something Colombians tend to do,
but at the same time she is well aware
of the American mindset and being on time.
All right. She's still getting her nails done.
We have a tee time, you know that. It is what it is.
I felt elated to give her a baby shower.
I was excited but Pao is late
and I think it's rude and disrespectful.
If he loves you as much as he says he does,
what is there to make him feel better about getting married this time?
Me and him as a couple decided it was not the right time.
I don't know what you need assurance for.
At this point, I, honestly, have no idea what's gonna happen.
Hey. Hey, Ashley.
Ashley is the one that got away.
Got a vacation coming up, in Aruba.
Aruba? Yes. Who are you going there with? X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
May, are you excited for your birthday party? Yes.
Yeah? You wanna go play mini Golf?
We get to see alligators. (GASPS) Wanna see some alligators?
Alligators. They even let you feed the alligators.
Oh, my goodness.
Oh, yeah. (GIGGLES) Their babies.
So, you are excited for our family get-together?
I'm excited to see everyone but I am worried...
They always have questions.
Today, we are celebrating May's birthday
and I'm kinda nervous because it's the first time
the whole family is gonna be in one place,
since I didn't get married.
I feel like they're all gonna have a lot to say about
what happened with me in Morocco and why we didn't get married or,
what's happening or blah, blah, blah, blah.
I just want to enjoy the day and celebrate May's birthday.
Look. Look. May!
The birthday girl. (WHOOPING)
Hey, beautiful. I am glad that Nicole's back in Florida.
It's OK with me that they haven't gotten married yet.
Well, it's good to have you back, sweetie. Yeah.
I'd rather talk to Azan.
I don't know what his reasons are for wanting the relationship
with Nicole. I thought his reason was to come to America,
but I don't know, I've never actually met him.
Kick it in, May. Get it, get it.
Yay! Yay! (WHOOPING)
Get it. You have to take it with you.
Thank you. Aw, you're so nice.
Yay, May!
All right, May. Smile. Look here. (CAMERA SHUTTER CLICKS)
Show me some teeth. (CAMERA SHUTTER CLICKS)
We're happy to have Nicole back here in Florida with us
and I would like to see Nicole stay here,
get May into school, get her life and May's life going here
but we know it's probably only temporary.
I am sure she's gonna try and find her way back over in Morocco.
I am glad you came back in time for May's birthday.
Oh, yeah. We enjoy spending time with you guys.
So, why did you come back?
Because, um, for Americans,
you can only go to Morocco for like 90 days, so like three months...
And, um, because we didn't get married
I wasn't able to stay there, I had to come back.
So are you just planning on staying here? No.
Just figuring out my plan to go back.
I don't know where she's trying to go from here.
They talk about getting married but the first time,
it kinda got called off at the last minute
and the second time, it got called off before I was even supposed to head there.
This whole thing just seems like a cycle of nothing.
It just doesn't make any sense, Nicole, why he called off the wedding.
You don't have to necessarily have a big full-blown wedding.
He could've, you guys could've done like a... Like we do here...
..but you're not even that far. He ditched out of that.
He didn't ditch out of anything.
I mean, you were there, we told you that we just didn't feel like
it was like a right time for it.
You know, with money
and, you know, how much to take to put one together.
The last time that they decided that they were going
to try to secure their future,
by using the money that they were gonna do for the wedding,
um, to start a business.
As far as I know, there is still no business.
If he loves you as much as he says he does,
as much as he tells everybody else that he loves you... Who is he telling?
What assurances do you have that he'll actually marry you this time?
What? There is... I don't know what you're saying.
We didn't get married because me and him as a couple... You don't get married -
..decided it was not the right time. I don't know why you need assurance for.
I don't know what his true intent is but,
what I saw in Morocco,
it was a little unsettling.
I am glad you didn't get married. Don't you want me to be happy, Dad?
I do. I am just not convinced that Azan will make you happy.
So, when is he gonna come meet me?
It is frustrating. I mean, I bought air plane tickets,
uh, for me and my wife and I never got to go over there.
I'd rather talk to Azan
before she gets married.
All right, Nicole, so what's next? Find a place to go visit.
Somewhere Azan can fly to and we won't have to go to Morocco.
Do you have a place in mind? We actually talked about Grenada.
Hey, I still have air plane tickets.
Well, I guess you should come and meet him. Yeah? Yeah.
Well, you know, you guys tried Korea before. Yeah.
A year or two ago, Nicole and Azan did try to meet up over in Korea
which was supposed to be a Muslim-friendly country,
where they could go and spend some time together
but he got over there and they basically turned him away.
Um, I am not 100% clear on why they turned him away,
um, just that they were not happy with the way things looked
and just sent him home.
I honestly have no idea why.
Nicole thinks they might actually pull this off this time.
What happened so it made it so you can't go there,
he couldn't stay, what was the issue?
Um, they literally didn't even tell him.
They just told me I need to go back home.
Who's to say that like if you go to another place
it's not gonna happen again? (SIGHS)
You're supposed to be able to -
These are the countries you should be able to fly to.
So, other Moroccans that have good reputations
can get into these other countries? Probably.
Just because our trip to South Korea didn't work
doesn't mean that every trip we try isn't gonna work.
I am not worried about him getting denied entrance to Grenada.
I don't feel like it'll be as big as a profile country
as South Korea is.
I'm almost done with this conversation.
Yeah, well, suck it up, cupcake.
I've been really stressed, especially with all of the trust issues
between Jay and I that we're facing.
I am not gonna process your change of status right now
because there is no point in applying if we break up.
So I just want to make sure before we spend all that money and stuff
that I really know what's going on in this marriage.
What would you like to do with your hair today?
I need a change. A change? What about hair extensions?
Never had extensions. Oh, you'll love them.
So today, I am at the salon to visit my friend and hairstylist, Katie.
Since things have gone downhill with Jay,
I just feel like my self-esteem is not there,
kinda wanna do a little makeover, go get my hair done
and kinda make me feel a little prettier.
I feel like ever since this happened
I've been so insecure which is not me.
I'm not really like an insecure person.
Mm-hm. Especially with my age now.
I went and got Botox, I am getting extensions,
and those aren't things I normally would do, so like,
I need to not be insecure just because of...
Yeah, what he did.
Do you think maybe he just got married too young
and maybe he's just not ready for marriage or...?
I mean, he's obviously not ready for marriage
if he is doing what he did.
If I was in Ashley's shoes
I definitely would kick him to the kerb.
I know it's easier said than done but...
She's totally better than that.
She could let him, you know, let him go.
So what do we need to do to get you happy again?
Maybe this hair will make me happy. (BOTH GIGGLE)
(ASHLEY SQUEALS) Oh, it looks beautiful.
Oh, it looks so good. I love it. It's beautiful.
Hey, good luck with everything. I'm here for you as a friend.
All right, thank you.
I feel really good, I feel confident.
And I am excited because I am kinda meeting up with someone.
And I wanna look damn good when I do.
Hey. Hey, Ashley. What's up?
Good to see ya. It's good to see you too.
Mikey is my ex boyfriend.
I didn't tell Jay who I'm meeting tonight
just because I know he would freak out.
But I feel like Mikey is a really good person to talk to
because he knows me, and he knows me on the level of dating me.
So, I want to talk about Jay being on the dating website
and kinda get his opinion on it.
What do you think? I like number one.
It's my favourite. Mm?
Yes, I do. (ASHLEY GIGGLES)
Mikey is a lot older than Jay, he's very mature.
He's very respectful, and he's just never been that player type.
He's a very supportive person wherein Jay's definitely lacking in all of that.
So, what's new? Working a lot.
Got a vacation coming up here, in Aruba.
Aruba? Aruba. Nice. So who are you going there with?
Going solo.
Yes. Are you dating anyone now?
No. That's the reason I can afford this vacation!
Ashley is a great woman,
she's very loving, caring, beautiful,
wonderful mom, and she will always have a spot my heart.
Ashley is the one that got away.
How about you? What's new with you?
Just the married life. Married life? Mm-hm.
You don't sound so enthusiastic.
Obviously, marriage isn't easy, like, in general.
But I don't think it's all that I exactly anticipated.
Does Jay know you're here tonight?
I mean, he knows I'm out, he doesn't know with who.
You think he'd be upset if he knew you're with me?
Yeah, but to me it's like maybe I wouldn't be out with my ex
having wine right now, if you wouldn't have done what you did.
What do you mean? You are respectful
and like a gentleman, where he totally screwed up.
What do you mean, he screwed up?
(LAUGHS SOFTLY)
Um, I found out few days after we got married
that he had created a Tinder
and was talking to, like, multiple women
inviting them to my house.
Wow. That's messed up.
I don't feel Ashley should have to worry
about her husband running around on her.
I'm very concerned that Jay's just using Ashley
and she's gonna end up getting hurt.
So, you're gonna stay with him?
I don't know.
I still love him and it's like, what do you do?
Do you buy a ticket back to Jamaica?
Say, "Pack your shit, and like you're on your own from here on or...?"
I don't think Ashley makes the best decisions
in her choice of men.
She's only made one good choice with a relationship and that was me.
Like, what would you do if you were in my shoes?
I would have to end it.
I think you need to put your and your children's needs
above his needs.
I agree. I just hate seeing you this way.
When we were dating, you were always smiling
and always happy. I know. I was.
Seeing my ex tonight and realising that
he's incredibly respectful, he cares about my feelings,
he cares about my kids and my future...
It's hard for me to look at Jay and think like,
"Oh, is this the person I wanna settle down with,"
when I realise there's so much better out there.
Why settle for less than that?
I shouldn't.
If you don't have trust, you don't have anything.
(SIGHS DEEPLY)
I am just extremely torn right now.
My head and my heart are telling me two different things.
Do you wanna go try something else? Would love to. OK. Let's go.
(CHEERING) X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
Andrei and I have been married for a year.
And recently we found out that we're having a baby girl.
I'm excited to be a mom.
And I'm really excited to see Andrei as a dad.
But Andrei thinks my family sticks their nose
into our lives a little too much.
The baby's coming, we have to set some healthy boundaries.
Andrei doesn't want the family so involved and you raising a kid
but at the same time... But he needs to step up. ..he still doesn't have a job
and you're relying on Dad for money.
It's been a few weeks since our gender reveal party,
and my dad's been kind of stand-offish.
I just feel like lately he's been giving me the cold shoulder
and it's not like him at all, so...
Today we're gonna meet up. I think we just need to talk about it face to face.
Hey, Dada. Hey, sweetie. How you doing?
Good. How are you? Good to see you.
What you been up to?
Just trying to figure things out.
OK. So what's going on?
Why am I upset at you? Is that what you're asking?
There's a lot of reasons why I am upset.
One of the big reasons I'm upset is Andrei.
I told you, one of the big things that I was concerned about
was him having employment, being able to support you.
I don't wanna have to worry about my daughter being provided for.
At the gender reveal party, Andrei pulled me aside
and basically said, "I'm gonna handle this going forward in the future."
But proof is in the pudding. I mean, I haven't seen it yet.
You guys put the cart before the horse.
You're just trying to get on your feet financially
and then you went ahead and you got pregnant.
We're in a situation and it's fine.
We're embracing it, so what's the problem?
I was really shocked when Elizabeth told me she was pregnant.
You could've knocked me over with a feather.
Just because, you came over here and got married
and then knocked up my daughter without any...
Any plan in place to support her.
I just think that's irresponsible.
You bring him over here on a K-1 visa,
and you know it's gonna be six months, eight months
or a year for him to be able to work, OK?
So, how are you gonna support yourself?
I knew it was gonna come back to me.
OK, so, who is this about today?
Is it about you or it's about us?
Well, it's about... You wanna know why I am upset.
I am telling you why I am upset.
You guys came to me and said, "Hey, we need help.
We don't like being in an apartment, we have two big dogs,
you have this house right down the street with a fenced-in yard,
can we move in? And, oh, by the way,
uh, we can't afford to pay you rent. Do you mind if we live there for free?"
And what did I say? I said, "Absolutely."
But here's my condition. Take care of the property like it was your own.
But then, the place didn't look good when I saw it.
The grass was like, this high. Cos we had just moved in.
And it was the summer time and it was raining. You can't buy a $150 lawn mower
and keep the grass cut? Groceries for the week.
And the house that you're living in for free? No.
I mean, I feel like Andrei is not keeping up his end of the deal
and maintaining my house.
And I feel that they're completely taking me for granted.
And that really is disappointing.
You could've said, "Hey, we're planning to have a family.
It might involve you." The bottom line is that
you're living in a house for free that I gave you.
You guys sought me out, asked me -
OK, so you think that you can dictate our every move?
No, I just want a little bit courtesy, that's all. No.
I am so thankful for my dad's house that he gave to us rent-free.
But my dad definitely tries to play the guilt trip thing,
and to hear him say that we're not grateful of him
giving us the home to live in, is like a slap in the face.
You like hold it over our heads, that's what Andrei doesn't like.
He feels like I hold it over his head, that I helped him? He... Yes.
You're my daughter, I love you and I'm concerned about you.
You seem like you don't believe that.
Listen, when a father helps their kids,
all they want is a little bit of gratitude back, that's it.
My help does not come with strings.
Just show me you are grateful. We are.
Listen, that's all I'm looking for.
Well, I really hope you mean that. I do, sweetie.
Elizabeth has a major attitude and it didn't used to be like that.
And I really feel that that's his influence.
Love you. Love you.
My dad definitely has a point when he says
that he thinks that we put the cart before the horse
but it hurts me because Andrei,
he's such a man that just wants to work and wants to provide
but because of this whole process with the K-1 visa,
he couldn't work for the first six months
of being here in the States.
So, I just feel so torn right now.
I feel like Andrei and my dad are playing tug of war with me
and I am just, like, in the middle of it all.
(MOBILE RINGING)
Hello. NICOLE: Hello.
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
(NICOLE SPEAKS SPANISH)
We're married now, for how long?
This is not how I pictured our families.
I thought that maybe we'll have a child by now.
Uh-huh. I can't have a child and have
you not liking their grandmother.
(WHOOPS)
(SIGHS)
Yeah. Reborn.
Everything is gonna be fine.
It's over. You're welcome.
Yeah? OK. (GIGGLES)
I am happy now that the case is dismissed and all the stress is gone
from everybody and that we can move on
and get our life back together and maybe be a family.
Oh, Adam's coming. Come on.
Hey. How we doing?
We're so happy. Doing good?
Thank you so much. Yes.
So, the case was dismissed today pursuant to statute.
Now that means, the case is dismissed today.
They have one year from the day you were arrested
to determine if they wanna refile charges against you.
But that's up to this attorney, OK?
And if they do, contact me immediately
and then we begin the process from the beginning. We start it over. Do you understand?
OK. In my experience, that doesn't happen very often
but if it does, call me. But we're in good shape.
It's a misdemeanour case. I don't think they're gonna refile on you.
All right. Thank you so much.
What a relief. Yes. It's off your shoulders. Yes.
All right, good.
(COLT ON THE PHONE)
Well, that's good.
Hello. Pao showed up an hour late.
That was awful. Sorry I am late.
It wouldn't be Pao if you weren't late.
He thinks that we've been ungrateful. This is (BLEEP) X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
We have a tee time. We gotta leave in like 15 minutes.
Yeah, I know. I told her that.
We're here. (CHILDREN SHOUTING)
(INDISTINCT CHATTERING)
Hello. Hi.
Paola. Nice to meet you.
Oh, thank you.
I'm Joanne, nice to meet you. Hi, nice to meet you.
Hey. Hey. How's it going?
Woo, so many people. We're a houseful. Yeah.
I finally arrived at the baby shower
and I'm really surprised there are a lot of people already here.
Normally, in Colombia, people show up a little bit late and they stay all day.
Nobody shows on time to a party in Colombia.
How are you? Good to see you.
Good to see you, too. Are you ready to get this party started?
Yeah. I'm sorry, I'm late. Well, you know...
I think it wouldn't be Pao if you weren't late.
I feel we got on a wrong foot
because Pao was late
and people had been here waiting.
But I hope we're just gonna have a grand time.
Blue, how you want it. Nice. All right.
Look at the table. Get some punch or a drink...
This is so pretty. (GASPS)
Patty, thank you so much. You're welcome.
All right, so, baby, we gotta go.
Really? Yeah. We're late already.
We have a tee time, OK, babe? OK.
OK, bye. Come on. Come on.
Love you. (ALL LAUGH)
I don't want Russ to leave because having Russ there,
it gives me a little bit more like...
A strength and make...it's gonna make me feel more comfortable
because probably it's gonna be a bit awkward.
We're ready to get started, guys.
Pao, you're gonna sit in the soft recliner.
I've never seen you eat so much sugar.
And a little bit of this. I love it.
I'm afraid I'm gonna be eating everything.
That's gonna be the problem.
OK, you're ready? Can you hand Pao the gift?
(GRUNTS)
Oh, this is awesome.
It's... Wait... Is it a glider?
It's... Know what that is? Uh...
It's to make the baby sleep, right? (GIGGLES)
Sorry. Grab another card?
Let's get another one. This is...
John? Joan. The art teacher that was here.
OK. They left just a little bit ago.
You made out a... Didn't see... OK.
Oh, this is so cute. Oh!
Oh, that's Melissa and Kane.
Melissa just left, not long ago.
I don't like the idea of opening gifts in front of people.
It's nice that they're doing this for me but just...
I don't know, I feel like I'm in the spot.
It's making me feel uncomfortable because
people already left from the baby shower before I even arrived,
and people doesn't have much time to spend with me there,
and I feel like I just came, just to open gifts.
And that doesn't make me look good at all.
(CHILDREN CHATTERING)
A blanket. Oh, thank you!
That's awesome, so cute. Thank you so much.
(GUESTS CHATTER)
Whoo. I am so grateful for everybody, for you to be here and...
Thank you. ..I'm sorry for the waiting.
You're leaving?
After Russ left, there were so many people who actually left.
I just got inside, I say hi,
I sat there, opened the presents and that was it, nothing else.
Everybody was so ready to leave.
I was really sad and disappointed that
like, everybody left so soon.
Normally, how long do baby showers like...take?
Oh, a baby shower lasts two to three hours.
I was really surprised that everybody left so early.
Left early?
Pao showed up late
and people needed to leave.
So, when she complained about not being able to mingle
with the people at the baby shower, that's her own fault.
Allowing herself to be late, that was awful.
People were here with anticipation of you being here, but you were late.
Ready to go shopping?
Yeah. Look.
You're welcome, baby.
Yeah, here we go.
Before I go back to Morocco,
Azan and I decided that we were gonna go visit Grenada,
and have a really nice vacation together.
Thankfully, I've been able to get some temp jobs to save up some money.
And I am so excited, like I can't wait to see him again.
It's been too long.
Oh, that's good. There you go.
All right, let's go find more vegetables.
It's really important to Azan that
I get healthy and lose some weight.
No, not hot dog.
Yeah, I bet it is.
I've started eating in a better way,
and it's been going really great.
I'm gonna probably lose enough
to look a little different in Grenada, so that'll be fun.
Hey. Let's call Daddy, OK?
I need to see what he's up to.
Stay around here. Don't touch anything, OK?
(MOBILE RINGING)
Hey, baby. Look.
Fruits and vegetables. (CHUCKLES)
We got an avocado, apples
and bananas, some hot dogs.
Good. How are you?
We had May's birthday yesterday.
Birthday party.
She did, she wishes you were there.
And my family was there, like my mom and my dad,
but they were on my grille about, you know,
not getting married.
Yeah, so...
My dad wants to actually meet you for himself.
Because I mentioned to him about,
how, like, we have been talking about going to another country.
So we could see each other. So what do you think about that?
When my mom met Azan, it was stressful.
We miss you. May, May!
Oh. Mom... I miss you so much.
Mom? Oh, sorry.
This is Azan. Hi. How are you?
How are you doing? I'm doing good, thank you. It's good to finally meet you.
My mom was hard on Azan when they first met.
She's the parent, the warrior,
always concerned and when I found out what they talked about
later on, I was upset with what she talked about.
I need to know the truth. After only knowing Nicole two weeks,
you decided you wanted to marry her.
But you were still talking to other women, too,
at the same time. Right?
Are you going to marry my daughter?
Either marry her or let her go.
Azan felt a little overwhelmed from my mom.
So, I really hope my dad and Azan get along.
And I think once he meets him and gets to know him more
and sees us together, I am sure he'll see that he is a good person.
Yeah. OK. Yeah, that's what I told them, like...
You guys just need to show each other mutual respect,
and I think, that would be good.
All right, well, I need to finish up this shopping
so I will call you later, and text you
and I will let you know more when I find out about...
You know, my dad and if they can do stuff to come see you.
Et cetera, et cetera. (LAUGHS)
I love you too. Bye. Bye, baby.
I love my dad and I appreciate his opinion
but I don't want him to put pressure on Azan
and I really hope he doesn't ruin this trip.
May, slow down.
Here you go.
Hello, there. Hi, baby.
I just got home from talking to my dad.
Lately, there has been a little bit of tension
and negativity between my dad and Andrei,
and it's just not good.
(GRUNTS)
Well, first of all, he said
when he came here to see the house,
he said it made him mad to see that the lawn was so long.
Yeah. It's ridiculous that we didn't cut the grass and...
(BLEEP) ..he thinks that we aren't taking care of the house.
This is (BLEEP) That's what I say.
He also said, he thinks that
we've been like, just ungrateful
and unappreciative.
I'm like, "What you're saying is not true," and he was being so dramatic.
Also, he has been saying that
he's been basically paying for our entire relationship,
like, from the moment that you got here.
I don't wanna say this but you were right, with like what you said,
like, the whole - I told you...
We don't really have enough money
to put down on an apartment right now.
This can really affect not only the relationship with my dad
but the rest of my family, and - I don't care.
Well, I do, it's my family. I don't care.
You two need to hash it out.
I am not the mediator. I'm done doing that.
How are we gonna do it on our own?
How are we gonna do it?
How?
Andrei gets super heated
to the point where he's not really thinking straight
and he makes rash decisions
but the thought of paying rent is just crazy
because Andrei is still not working
and I am pregnant and this is stress that I don't need right now.
This is just...this is too much. I need a minute to think about this.
OK, all right. All right, all right...
I can't, I can't...like I need...
Where are you going?
(DOOR SLAMS SHUT)
You left and everybody left.
I just don't wanna feel like this.
This trip is about fixing our relationship with Russ's family
but the baby shower just made it even worse.
Ash?
I've been messaging Ashley for like two hours straight,
no reply, no comments, no nothing.
He's an ex, but he's just a friend. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
I just came back from my baby shower.
Everything finished so fast. I am a little disappointed.
I was expecting they were gonna stay longer,
that we're gonna be hanging out with the rest of the family
but that didn't happen.
Hey, wake up.
Wake up.
It's sad because I really wanted to
fix everything with everybody in Oklahoma
but it's always awkward.
They made me feel like they didn't wanna be around me.
I am hoping that Pao had a good time
with my family at the baby shower.
This trip was to help mend Pao's relationship with my family.
But there is another reason why I am hoping today went smoothly.
And it's something that I haven't told Pao about yet.
Hey, mi amor. Hey.
I thought you were gonna be here
by the time I was done with the baby shower.
Well, you came late, we left late.
Transportation takes time.
(SOFTLY) You smell of alcohol.
(SIGHS) How was the baby shower?
That was really pretty, but...
(CLEARS THROAT)
I was a little disappointed.
Everybody left really early.
Why? I don't know.
We opened the gifts and...
Just in a moment I noticed that everybody just left.
(SIGHS) Well,
a lot of the guests came early. I mean, that's what I was there for.
Were they there for you?
They were there to see both of us. You left and everybody left.
I felt alone today.
I felt this way before when I was living here
and today kinda bring me back to before.
I just don't wanna feel like this.
No, look, I can see how you can think that way
but I don't think there was anything against you.
When I was living here in Oklahoma,
I felt that people were not accepting me and that
they judge me. Today, I kinda feel the same way.
This trip is about fixing our relationship with Russ's family
but the baby shower just make it even worse.
Look, I'm here for you, baby. You know that.
I want you to let them know
how I feel, with your own words
because I wanna feel that you have my back
and that you gonna fix this because I'm doing a big effort
to come back here and to try to clear the air.
I think it'd be best that I go, first thing in the morning
and talk to my parents
and kinda see where they are and see if they're feeling the same way
And um...
I think it'd be really good that you talk with my mom.
OK.
It's really important to me that my parents'
relationship with Pao can be resolved.
Because we have a baby boy on the way
and I do have a job opportunity here in Oklahoma,
so I want them focusing on
what's important and not what's driving them apart.
I'm here for you, OK?
Love you. Mm-hm, love you too.
I've been messaging Ashley for like two hours straight,
no reply, no comments, no nothing.
That's not like her. (DOOR SLAMS SHUT)
Ash? (FOOTSTEPS APPROACHING)
Hey.
I was with a friend, Mikey.
He's just one of my friends. He's an ex, but he's just a friend.
Why didn't you tell me that you were gonna see one of your ex?
Cos you didn't ask who I was going to see.
So, what is this like a payback thing or what?
No, I didn't cheat on you.
He's known me for a long time and I needed advice.
I needed a guy's point of view.
Point of view and advice on what? On what you (BLEEP) and did.
I mean, I don't really think you care to hear what his comment was.
This is pretty much everybody's comment.
I should leave your ass.
What, do you still have feelings for him?
No... Do you wanna go and be back with him, that's why you did your hair?
If I wanted to be with him, I would be, trust me.
If I wanted to be with him, I would be with him.
Me going out with my ex, out in public for drinks,
who's also my friend is definitely not even close
to going on a dating app and talking to random women trying to hook up.
The fact that you went on a date
with your ex while you're married
behind my back and then tell me (BLEEP)...
I don't really care about how you feel right now cos you didn't... Oh, you don't care about...
(BLEEP) ..how I felt when you - Listen. We're done
about feelings, then? Clearly. We done. I can't deal with this.
OK. Bye. Whatever.
I just ended the conversation cos, you know,
I didn't wanna say nothing that I was gonna regret tomorrow
or do nothing that I was gonna regret.
But it is really frustrating cos
nothing is getting better in my relationship.
It's just getting worse.
You feel better? Yeah, I feel better, oh, my God.
Oh, my God.
At first, Larissa did not want me to go into the courtroom
and the last minute, she asked me to go in with her.
I think it's a very good sign that Larissa's starting to trust me
and I really hope since Larissa's case was dismissed
that things will calm down a great deal and everyone will be happy.
Larissa? Hi.
(LAUGHS) Hi.
You know, I never got you flowers at the airport.
Oh, cute. Thank you.
Aw. (LAUGHS)
I regret calling the police. I never intended
or thought that she would be arrested.
So, now that Larissa's case has been dismissed,
I could not be happier.
How was your day? It was OK, I was worried about you.
Right.
Helicopters?
I never thought we would've had a confrontation like that,
but now that the trial is behind us
I really hope this is the wake-up call
that Larissa and I need for our marriage.
I know we've been unhappy
and it's been hard. Lots of stress,
and I'm sorry for everything.
I've always tried my best
even though I might have failed more than once.
But I kept trying and failing.
But we should take this
as a good thing, what happened is a miracle.
We survived a lot and here we are.
Throughout all this, I've loved you.
I love you, too.
I accept. Thank you.
I am glad that she could be there for you.
When Larissa told me that she actually had a good time with my mother,
I nearly fell down on the ground, honestly.
I know my mother is overprotective at times
but I really hope that
we can all start over again and find our way.
We should celebrate. Yes, we should.
Oh, look at this!
You wanna drink champagne? Yeah.
(CORK POPS) Oh! (LAUGHS)
You did it. Huzza!
Here's to our new start, baby. Yeah, a new start.
It's been a hard couple of months for Larissa and I.
There were moments when I never thought I would get my wife back
but today, I got to talk to her again.
I hope that we can start over,
we continue on and be happy.
I love you. I love you.
If we did get a divorce
am I still responsible for him, then? Yes.
I'll be damned if I pay for your ass, no.
If we're divorced, no. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
Hello. Hi. Hi, I'm Erin Elliott.
I'm Chantel. This is Pedro.
So, what brings you here today?
OK, so you need to file
something called Removal of Conditions
and with that you're gonna submit evidence
that you're living together and you're married.
Um, that your finances are co-mingled
and then once that is approved you would then get the ten-year card.
Pedro has mentioned starting a business before in the Dominican Republic.
I have no idea what this business is
that Pedro wants to open and he doesn't want to tell me.
You can have a business anywhere in the world.
What you're saying is, "I am permanently residing in the US."
You could have a business outside of the US,
and come back and forth.
But realistically, you couldn't.
Because I am here,
we're gonna start a family and we're gonna have bills to pay
and you're gonna need to work.
Yeah, we already do but just think when we have children.
So you would...you would... You would...
I never said that. I said I didn't want
to have children at this time
because I don't want to bear children into a chaotic family.
That is what I said before. Yes, I did.
Pedro and I have been on bad terms for months.
And now, he's only focused on this permanent Green Card.
He won't change the topic in these past days
and it's really making me question what's motivating this.
Do you guys have other questions? Um...
Mm-hm.
You're issued the ten-year card,
you are not required to remain married after that.
So, I mean, you could get a divorce and it wouldn't affect
the Green Card status.
Why are you even asking?
OK.
So, if we did get a divorce,
am I still responsible for him then? Yes.
So, you're responsible, regardless of divorce.
What about a pre-nup?
It's not gonna help.
So that's a separate contract.
They don't recognise that for immigration.
I wanna be clear here. It is not fair
that the American who brought someone over
on a K-1 visa is responsible
for the immigrant's expenses
if they decide to get a divorce?
I'll be damned if I pay for your ass, no.
If we're divorced, no.
Are there ever any cases where
a Green Card can be taken away
from someone because of the divorce?
Yes. The marriage was not entered into in good faith.
Hm.
So, if the marriage wasn't entered in good faith,
then he can lose his residency?
Yes.
While we're in the meeting
Pedro brings up divorce to the lawyer.
It's making me think like there's a motive
behind these questions.
Was this your plan all along?
To just come here and marry me
just for a Green Card so that you can leave me,
use me to start your business?
OK. It's good to know.
Next time on 90 Day Fiance, Happily Ever After...
Did he sleep with someone? Like, I need to know that.
Jay told me nothing happened between him and the girl from the dating app
but, right now, I don't trust Jay at all.
(MOBILE RINGING)
Was it like infidelity?
It's shady finding out what he did.
It's not exactly the best time.
Pao's been voicing her concerns. I want us all to start fresh.
As a parent, I am concerned. Where's this headed?
What are your intentions? Hello.
How was your interview, by the way? Trucking is...
We're about to have a baby in no time.
You spent so much money for you to do the trucking school.
Will you shut up?
I don't know what he wants to do in the Dominican Republic for so long.
It makes me think that you're just trying to get away from me. Yeah.
I feel like my marriage could be lost.
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