Ooh! (GIGGLES)
..90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
Now the trial is behind us,
this is the wake-up call Larissa and I need for our marriage.
You guys could've done like a...
..but he ditched out of that.
What assurances do you have that he'll actually marry you this time?
You could get a divorce and it wouldn't affect the Green Card status.
Are you dating anyone? No, I'm still flying solo.
My head and my heart are telling me two different things.
(GIGGLES)
She's getting her nails done.
Pao's an hour late.
How much more time do you guys need?
That's rude and disrespectful.
My dad has been basically paying for our entire relationship,
like, from the moment that you got here.
This is (BLEEP), that's what I say. You two need to hash it out.
And...
Did he sleep with someone?
Like, I need to know that.
Jay told me nothing happened between him and the girl from the dating app
but I don't trust Jay at all.
(RINGING TONE)
Was it, like, infidelity?
It's shady.
Finding out what he did.
How was your interview, by the way?
We're about to have a baby in no time.
We spent so much money for you to do school.
Will you shut up?
Pao's been voicing her concerns. I want us all to start fresh.
As a parent, I am concerned.
Where is this headed? What are your intentions?
Hello?
I don't know what he wants to do in the Dominican Republic for so long.
It makes me think that you're really just trying to get away from me.
I feel like my marriage could be lost.
# I never really know
# Which way this is gonna go #
My dear...
That means a lot.
The domestic violence case was dismissed pursuant of statute.
That means they have one year from the day you were arrested
to determine if they wanna re-file charges against you.
In my experience, that doesn't happen very often.
(LAUGHS)
What a relief. Yes. A weight off your shoulders.
I'm excited we could go out tonight.
It's a celebration.
The case is now behind us.
Finally.
Even though Larissa's case has been dismissed,
we still have a lot to work on in our relationship.
We have a long way to go.
What's on your mind?
In the past, it's been difficult.
We try to talk and one of us shuts down.
Well, here we are now.
A new start. A fresh start.
My name's Colt.
Pleasure.
(LAUGHS)
Well, I have a lot on my mind.
There's...my mother.
What are your thoughts about living with her?
Or just her in general?
Right.
I agree.
It's not you versus Debbie, versus me,
but you must respect Debbie as well.
What you're talking about is communication.
And you and I need to learn how to communicate first
and then we can join forces, work together.
The night Larissa was arrested,
Larissa and I had been arguing a lot.
So much so that I told her that I did not wanna marry her
and then she just lost it.
I couldn't get through to her. She wasn't Larissa any more.
I feel like sometimes you shut yourself off.
I need you to step up and be my partner.
I will move heaven and earth to make you happy,
but sometimes your demands are quite ridiculous, honestly.
Why don't we figure out a budget every month?
Prepaid credit card for you.
Just you.
Oh, my God. Perfect.
No. I-I can't.
Maybe in the middle.
Yes, let's go with that.
Let's see if you can survive on 200 for 30 days.
I think Larissa thought life in America is very easy.
We all have multiple cars, live in big mansions.
I think you must have thought I had a million dollars, or something.
I don't remember saying that.
I might have had that, but now I don't.
You're expensive.
OK.
Budget. Communicate. My mother.
Happy. Love.
We have to be very careful.
This is a critical time for us, you and I.
We're recovering from, basically, the apocalypse.
We survived, somehow.
You want a better life with me?
Wanna conquer the world?
Even though we have our problems, I still truly love Larissa,
but I realise that we don't know much about each other.
I hope that Larissa and I can learn and discover more about each other
and find love again and be happy.
I love you.
Let's go home and celebrate.
(CHUCKLES)
So annoyed. Why? What happened?
Dad and Andrei, them two together, it's just not happening.
Today I'm at my sister Jenn's house.
I literally just have to vent to her
about what's been going on between my dad and Andrei.
You're living in a house for free that I gave you.
You guys asked me - So you think you can dictate our every move?
No, I just want - No. ..a little bit of courtesy, that's all.
You need to hash it out. I'm not the mediator.
I'm done doing that.
Andrei wants to move out like ASAP.
I seriously have no idea how he thinks that we're gonna pay for a new place.
I don't know where he thinks the money is gonna come from.
What happened? Just some crap with Dad.
He thinks we weren't being, like, respectful of,
like, the gift he was giving to us, or something.
Andrei was supposed to work on the house
and we did, like, a month's worth of crap to that house. Yeah.
Dad's mad because he thinks Andrei's being unappreciative
and, like, ungrateful and just...
..I can't take it. Yeah but, like, in Dad's defence,
he did give you guys that house.
He did it to help you guys out so you could save money
and you're not paying rent, you're not paying all these extra things.
You could use that money and put it into savings.
He wants you guys just to be, like, you know, respectful of it.
Elizabeth seems pretty stressed out
but they're getting all of this help from my dad.
My dad's obviously gonna expect something out of them,
something from them with everything that he's given them.
Andrei freaked out last night and he got so mad
and he's like, "That's it. This is ridiculous.
I knew your dad was gonna do this. We're getting out of here."
"Babe, we don't have the funds to just pick up and leave."
Moving is expensive. Right.
We're not in the situation to do that right now. Yeah.
He's like, "I don't care. We'll figure it out."
I think Andrei is confused.
I don't know, you know, how they do things in his country
but, in America, you need money to move into a new place.
It sounds like he's being irrational, like he - Extremely.
Yeah. He needs to, like, calm down.
For them as a couple that is not financially secure,
moving out of a rent-free home is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
He was talking about how he feels betrayed by your family -
Wait a minute. Our family has done nothing but helped you and Andrei.
What is he talking about, "betrayed"?
I hope you checked him on that.
I hope you were like, "Really? Stop!
You're being a little - " He was just so mad.
I honestly couldn't even get a word in.
It baffles my mind
that Andrei would feel anything but thankful.
You had to have your family to lean on.
Andrei has to accept how we operate.
Like, he was brought into this family.
It wasn't vice versa.
Any place you move to, they're gonna require, like - A deposit.
A deposit, or something. For sure. Where would you come up with that?
Are you gonna talk to Dad?
I mean, I'm gonna have to.
Like, Andrei doesn't want us to get any more help from him, but -
Andrei doesn't want you to ask Dad for help? No.
So, then, how is that gonna go?
I'm gonna have to ask him without Andrei knowing.
What is - But how is that gonna be?
I mean, it's not gonna just fall out of the sky.
I'll just tell him it's my pay cheque or something, I don't know.
I don't know. So, then, what does Andrei suggest?
If he is, like, "We have to move..."
He's just being really prideful and he's like,
"No more. Not taking any more help or advice from your dad."
The morals and values in Moldova are kind of old-fashioned in a way.
They're very traditional
and the husband brings in the money.
I can tell it drives him insane
that he's not fulfilling that aspect of what he is as a person.
All right, well, I mean, if you guys move out,
just know that Dad won't be happy about it.
It could be, like, the final, like, straw.
You know, maybe Dad won't help you guys out
if he feels you guys are moving out and leaving him high and dry.
I've never kept anything from him
but at this point, going behind Andrei's back
and asking my dad for a deposit is my only option.
You have to figure it out. Yeah.
I heard that Azan was talking to other girls.
Uh...
She seems to tell me a lot of the good things about Azan,
but I have my suspicions.
Was it physical at all?
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# I'll never be the same again
# I'll never be the same again #
Hey, girl. I missed you.
How are you? Good. Good.
Me and Azan are meeting in Grenada in a few weeks
and my family has just been so, like, on me about Azan
and, like, been negative lately.
So I'm really looking forward to talking to my friend Jessica
because Jessica's gonna be supportive.
Could I actually get a glass for this? Yes. Thank you.
She's nice.
Um, so how have things been since you've been back from Morocco?
Good and bad. Like, it's nice being back with my family,
but I live with my brother and my sister right now.
So me and my brother butt heads a lot,
so it's been really interesting living with him.
I've been trying to help out around the house,
but I don't even have a car either.
So, basically, I'm home a lot.
It's been hard.
So what happened? Why are you here? Not that I don't want you here.
Um, so...
You know we were supposed to get married when I went and stayed there
with getting a residence card and everything?
But we were like, honestly, like,
we just felt, like, it wasn't the right time for us
with, you know, the way... with money and stuff.
So now I have to kind of wait. So it's like a financial thing?
Mostly, yeah. When are you supposed to go back to get married?
Am I supposed to go back? I still don't know.
It's annoying, cos I feel like
my whole relationship with him's kind of been waiting. Yeah.
Definitely.
I feel bad because I know she really wanted to get married.
She was really, really looking forward to it
and, uh, I know it broke her heart not to,
but um if he wanted to postpone the wedding, that worries me a little.
Oh, but I do have some news. Do you wanna hear? Yeah.
So me and Azan were talking about going to another country,
a non-Muslim country to see each other,
so we decided to go to Grenada, in the Caribbean.
I'm really excited. Oh, that's so fun.
But, um, you know, my dad might be going to meet him.
It's so annoying. Do they not support you at all?
I mean, they say they want me to be happy
but, like, my dad basically said, "I'm happy you didn't get married,"
and I'm just, like, "Seriously?"
Like, you're one of the only people who, like, really, like, like him.
That's really important for me, because I need someone
who, like, believes in us,
because I hate defending my love to my family.
Are they, like, worried about him?
They don't trust him? Yeah, they're still worried that... Basically.
Are they still unsure?
Like, they're just unsure about everything. About...
With the wedding getting cancelled, now they're worried about that,
and money, blah, blah, blah, etc, etc.
I can see her parents' point of view,
why they would be very suspicious.
I just try and take Nicole's word for it,
but I even have my suspicions now that I know what he did.
I heard that Azan was talking to other girls,
but I don't even know in what way.
Uh...
Before I left for Morocco this last time,
I found voice recordings of Azan talking to other women.
Did you think that's OK, that you can call a girl saying,
"I wanna kiss you?"
I need you to explain this to me, because I don't understand, Azan.
It's not fair to me.
And the last time I saw Jessica,
I didn't tell her about the voice recordings of Azan
because I didn't really wanna give her reason to not trust him.
Sorry, Nicole.
Is it about the dress?
I mean, that's part of it.
I mean, it just...it wasn't a good thing,
but it is something that we've moved past.
You know, he's given me a secon...
I've given HIM a second chance,
just like he's done for me, you know.
So, like...
Was it, like, infidelity?
No.
I mean...
What happened? No, it wasn't, but it was a form of, like, cheating.
Was it physical at all?
No.
So it was, like...cyber cheating?
Mm.
Right? Mm.
I tried to approach Nicole
about this situation with Azan talking to other girls
and she was very...guarded.
She seems to tell me a lot of the good things about Azan
and keeps some of the negative things from me,
I think because I am her main source of support.
She doesn't want to lose that,
but it didn't sound very good.
I know you just wanna know, but...
..honestly, I just don't wanna talk about it.
It's not something I wanna think about.
What does he say about it though? He's apologised.
You know, he's apologised a lot
but still, like, it's still a sore spot.
Like, that stuff will never just be gone.
It's a little bit shady finding out that he was talking to other girls.
Up until then, I thought Azan was the one for Nicole
but I don't know now about him.
Honestly, I just wanna, like, move forward from all the negativity.
I just didn't wanna talk about what happened with Azan
and the voice recordings.
It's painful, cos, like, you'll never get over it.
You'll never be OK with it.
It's just relationship stuff, you know.
We moved past it. I'm not worried about it.
Things are good and we feel good
and, like, we just can't wait to be back in the same place together.
(DOOR OPENS)
Hey.
Packing up?
When I come home from work,
I see Pedro packing for the Dominican Republic.
He's leaving tomorrow for who knows how long?
Do you know when you're coming back yet?
I am disappointed beyond belief
by the way he's been treating me lately and it really worries me.
A couple of days ago, Pedro and I went to an immigration attorney
to talk about the status of his Green Card.
It turned out that all Pedro wanted to ask about
was what would happen if we got a divorce.
You can have a business anywhere in the world.
So you could get a divorce and it wouldn't affect the Green Card status.
I don't know why Pedro doesn't want me to come with him.
Maybe it's because he's hiding something.
Maybe he wants a divorce.
I just wish that he'd be honest with me.
It doesn't make any sense
to book a plane ticket without a flight home.
You're probably gonna get laid off.
I talked to my boss already.
Your boss is OK with you going from an undetermined amount of time?
Yes.
I know that Pedro really wants to go back to the Dominican Republic
to see his family,
but I don't trust them.
I think that they want Pedro to send just enough money for them
to start their business
and for him to divorce me and come back and help them run it.
I feel, like, when you go there,
your mom and your sister are gonna talk shit about me
and get inside your head.
It's your job to stand up for me and to stop them.
Nothing that they've ever said about me is real
and you know it.
Nothing negative.
Nothing negative that your family's ever said about me is real.
You told me yourself.
You're so hypocritical.
You're getting mad at me for doing the same thing you do all the time
with your mum and your sister. Yes, you do.
OK.
She has been voicing your concerns.
I want us all to start fresh.
They got married too quickly.
I didn't think that she was here for good, honest reasons.
It's taken us five years to get to this point.
It's not gonna happen overnight.
Andrei and I have decided to move out of the house.
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Knock knock. Come in.
Hello. Hey, Russ.
What's up?
We're in Oklahoma, visiting my family
but, so far, the trip is not going so great.
Where is Pao? She was getting her nails done.
We have a tea time, you know that.
Pao is late and I think it's rude and disrespectful.
We opened the gift and everybody just left.
Today kinda of brings me back to before when I was living in here
and I just don't wanna feel like this.
I'm eager for things to get better between Pao and my parents
because we have a baby on the way
and I have a job offer that could bring us back here.
Really, what led me here this morning
is that Pao's been voicing her concerns
since we've been planning the trip back to Oklahoma.
So I want us to talk this thing through.
So what concerns does she have?
She still doesn't feel like she's been accepted into the family
and the baby shower didn't help.
I mean, yes, honestly, we had our reservations.
But we were trusting you with your judgement on who you chose.
It has been frustrating and, with Pao, we're feeling like
we reached out, but we didn't get a reach back,
and wondering if we would ever have a close relationship.
I was surprised and saddened
that Pao still had reservations,
because I really thought we were all working on it.
I feel we've been doing everything we can
to make her feel a part of our family, reaching out, including her,
and it's not always been a positive response on her part.
Apparently, there's something still missing.
She kinda felt like she was judged because of the way she dressed,
like when she first came here, when she dressed showing too much skin.
Skin. She kinda felt like she was judged,
because she came in from a different culture.
Good morning.
Do you wanna go put something... Hey. ..a robe on?
Good idea. Let me go and find something.
Thank you.
In her family, that's normal.
I know, I'm not like that, and it was uncomfortable.
That's not how I was raised.
You covered yourself.
So it was, uh, odd, and I didn't like that.
Pao was different than the girls Russ dated
and I think they got married too quickly.
They have had arguments, fights. I could tell they were struggling.
I did have my times when I wondered if they were gonna make it,
so we always were a little awkward and uncomfortable with Pao,
as I didn't think that she would stick around through thick and thin,
or that she was here on good, honest reasons.
I think to cross that, to make sure everything's good,
she needs to express her side,
and how she feels and move on from there.
I feel we had talked some and some of these things had been discussed.
I guess it's not been discussed far enough.
There hasn't been much closure on it. Right.
I am open to talk to Pao to see exactly what it is
that caused her to feel this way and get it cleared and in the open
and what it is we can do to fix it.
It hurts me that she has felt that way.
I want us all to start fresh.
Whatever's in the past, we're gonna put it behind us and move forward.
I'm sure you've done this, but make sure you continue to communicate to her
that it's taken us five years to get to this point.
It's not gonna happen overnight. Right.
I mean, I'm happy that Pao wants to talk about this,
but it'd make things easier if you guys would move closer.
Well, with that being said,
I actually have, um, an offer on the table...
..for a job opportunity hauling gas here in Oklahoma.
Well, moving closer would certainly allow grandparents to help more.
Yeah. (CHUCKLES)
And, I mean, with the baby on the way, I would like that,
but I haven't talked to Pao about it yet.
What are you waiting on?
I'm waiting on this trip really,
to see if I can warm Pao up to Oklahoma.
If she's still against Oklahoma,
then it's gonna be very difficult to convince her.
That's why it's important we mend our relationship within the family
and make sure that Oklahoma still has a good connotation for Pao.
OK.
I was excited hearing that Russ had a job offer here in Oklahoma,
because we would just be overjoyed to have him close,
so I will meet with Pao and fix our relationship.
We certainly do wanna fight for this.
I love you guys. Love you. I appreciate it.
I feel like this job opportunity is going to be the best thing for my family,
so I really hope that my parents' relationship with Pao can be resolved.
See you later.
My dad and Andrei are on bad terms.
Andrei feels like he's a little betrayed by my dad
and so we've decided that we are moving out of my dad's house.
But, at this point, I'm not even gonna try to challenge Andrei,
because I want to be at peace and just get along with him.
So I'm about to call my dad and I am gonna break it to him
that we have decided to move.
And I purposefully wanna do it without Andrei,
because I do need to ask my dad for financial help for our new place.
I don't know if my dad's gonna say yes, but I have to ask.
(RINGING TONE)
Dad?
Uh, not so good, actually.
So, um...
..Andrei and I have decided to move out of the house.
Andrei is, like, really upset
and we would just rather have, like, our own place.
He just doesn't want to have that feeling
like he owes you something.
Honestly, we don't feel comfortable any more
and we feel like you're just, like, holding it over our head.
We did.
He will finish his...
No...
It kind of hurts to hear my dad say that we're just kind of throwing a gift away
that he gave to us, because it was nice of him to help
but, at the same time, I don't think that we should be living in one of his houses.
Him and Andrei are just gonna keep fighting
and it makes me feel torn and stuck in the middle
and, like, they just have to get over it.
I just wanted to call and tell you that we are in the process of moving
and we found another apartment, so it's...
Yes.
No and that was the other reason why I'm calling you.
It's an icky situation and it's last-minute.
We...
I mean, I didn't tell him, but...
..like, it's pretty inevitable, like, asking you for help.
I mean, he's gonna be really mad but, at the same time,
we're gonna have to have help regardless.
We don't have enough money to just, like, move out right now.
Hopefully at that point he'll have a job, an income.
I'm just trying to trust his judgement.
You know, we're still starting out so, one step at a time.
I definitely have to remember that Andrei came here on a K-1 visa
and he has compromised so much for me.
Like, his whole life totally changed,
so I have to give him a break sometimes and stand by him.
I know, but do you think that you would be able to help us?
Please don't tell Andrei.
If he asks, like, where it comes from,
can you just say, like, it's an advance or something?
All right, well, thank you and I'm sorry.
Love you.
Bye.
So my dad said yes. I feel really relieved.
At least we can move this weekend.
I know that Andrei will ask where the money's coming from
and I'm just gonna tell him that it's an advance from work,
so...hopefully he'll buy it.
# Growing up comes way too fast
# Fairy tales ain't built to last #
I hate moving. We're moving. We're moving.
I thought we were gonna bring the baby here.
This move is definitely very difficult.
We thought this would be our home
that we would settle in for at least a few years
and it makes me sad that we're moving right now.
By his selfishness
and just, like, complaining. Andrei. Straight complaining.
But I'm gonna be positive about this.
Although it may not be the best decision,
I trust my husband.
I trust you, baby. Thanks.
And it will be a new beginning for us.
All right. Pictures. Yeah, pictures.
I'm very happy about moving out,
cos I'm not gonna have any more debts to her dad
and it's gonna be taken care of.
We're gonna put stuff in the back?
I will.
I'm very confident that I'm gonna get a full-time job soon
in the truck industry as I planned.
Uh, I'm not worried about it.
I really hope that doesn't scratch.
Here, baby.
Don't need it. Perfect.
We're just gonna make sure it doesn't move.
Are you ready, baby?
I kinda feel guilty that I lied to my husband,
but there wasn't really any other option.
Bye, house.
The girls are going to New York City and I decided I'm gonna go.
Maybe they just sort of like break our relationship up, or something.
So it's more smooth on the top. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
# Rules were made to be broken
# Rules were made to be
# Made to be, made to be #
Jay and I definitely aren't seeing eye-to-eye right now.
We are just stuck in a constant pattern
of arguing and bickering and fighting.
I wasn't gonna hook up with no-one. I didn't wanna be in a relationship with no (BLEEP) one.
That's it. What the (BLEEP) were you doing on Tinder, then?
You went on a date with your ex.
How you expect me to feel about that?
I don't really care about how you feel right now,
cos you don't give a (BLEEP) how I felt. Listen. We're done here.
(BLEEP) feelings, then. Clearly.
..that is the same thing as what I did on the dating app.
Because you lied right there,
you didn't tell me you were gonna meet up with your ex.
You know, I wasn't there, so I don't know what happened.
Who knows what happened?
Let's go. I'm not your kid. Chill.
Day-to-day life for us is kind of just rolling through the motions.
I'm going to work, coming home, taking care of the kids,
not really focussing on Jay.
My muscles is popping.
At this point, every little thing that Jay does annoys me.
I just get really agitated with him.
My bullshit tolerance is, like, at a zero.
Are you ready to go stretch?
Yeah, I'm ready.
I still love him,
but I'm not sure if Jay and I are gonna be able to get past this
and I feel like a break is necessary at this point.
So the girls are going to New York City
and I decided I'm gonna go.
So you didn't even come and, like, say anything to me,
like, told me about it, or nothing?
Well, I'm here telling you about it now.
Yeah, but you already made the decision that you're gonna go already.
You didn't even ask me, nothing.
I know that Ashley and I have been having ups and downs with our marriage,
but I have no friends here.
I never get to go on no trip.
And you just feel like you're missing something so much
that you're just gonna go on a girls' trip.
Like, seriously?
I miss my friends more than you do.
You have your friends.
They live in Pennsylvania, If you wanna go somewhere with them, you can go.
Oh! Well, I just feel like I get much-needed time away.
The future of our marriage is not good.
I'm definitely not over Jay being on the dating app.
So having this time and space apart
will be healthy for our relationship.
I need to clear my head, I need to talk to my girlfriends
and kinda just unwind with them,
to be able to actually make a good decision on what I wanna do.
I know, like, most of your friends don't like me, so...
Now who knows? Maybe they just have you doing stuff
to, like, break our relationship up, or something.
Well, no-one can make me do something I don't wanna do.
But I do think, like, after everything you did...
I mean, like, I need this.
First, Ashley went to hang out with her ex.
And now she wanna go to New York for the weekend with her girls.
If that is what we're gonna do, I do think to spite each other,
our relationship is not gonna work.
The fact that you just come to me and be like, "Hey, I'm going here,
and I make my mind up already..."
I'm just saying that you should've come to me first.
Cos I've made my decision, I don't need to ask you.
That shit isn't happening, sorry.
I don't trust you and it's your fault.
So, until I can build more trust, no, it's not OK for you to be,
"Hey, I'm gonna run to Miami!" or, "I'm gonna run here."
Yeah, because I'm gonna act right and you don't.
Don't try to flip the script here.
At the moment, Ashley definitely has me by the balls.
Like, she's trying to get back at me for what I did.
I can't work because Ashley still need to file for adjustment of status.
A man can only take this much.
So she just need to figure out what she need to do.
Welcome. Do you have an appointment?
Yes, we have appointment -
Larissa. ..for today.
Go ahead and have a seat. We'll be right with you. OK. Thank you.
Larissa and I came to an agreement that she'd have $200 for her budget
but I don't know how expensive these lip injections are.
I want Larissa to be happy,
but there's no guarantee that I will pay for it.
I hate the shape of my lips.
I think your lips look beautiful.
I understand the need, the want to change your body.
I get it.
But you're beautiful.
It's not exactly the best time.
We just got out of something that was very expensive.
Unless you have a job or a bag of gold, or a lottery ticket...
Larissa.
So we're doing your lips today.
Looks like it. Yes. OK.
So one syringe is gonna be $475.
What do you say?
You're not gonna say anything?
If it'll make you happy...
Thank you.
There you go. Thank you.
Oh, my God. Thank you very much.
These lip injections are $300 over Larissa's budget.
That's a lot of money,
but it does feel good to make Larissa happy.
I really hope that this will make her happy for a while.
A long while. Maybe a year.
Hi.
Hi. I'm Melanie. Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you. Colt. Pleasure.
Nice to meet you. So, I understand we're doing your lips. Yes.
OK, and you just want them to be more... Yes.
So, it's more smooth on the top. Yeah. Like natural.
(LAUGHS)
Have you ever had anything done before?
No. First time. OK.
Yeah, well, yeah, OK.
750 for one syringe, or two for 1400.
We also do Botox which helps with fine lines.
It would start at 850 then, if you want more,
then you can add a syringe or two on top of that,
depending on what you want.
Looks like you'd better start looking for work.
Larissa constantly demands and wants things.
I try to take care of her, and I love her,
but it's never enough.
Anyway, that's a discussion for another day.
So we're gonna do the lip filler today, right. Yes. OK.
You nervous?
You know, I really enjoy the peace and quiet this brings us.
Why? You're not talking.
You're not arguing with me.
You can look. Oh, my God.
(GIGGLES)
Oh.
It really emphasises your smile.
Actually, you look pretty sexy right now. (CHUCKLES)
Hey, now. Keep one step at a time, you.
Tomorrow, they're going to look worse.
They're gonna swell up. It's part of the healing process.
(LAUGHS) Thank you, Melanie. Bye, guys. Have a wonderful day.
I felt that I was being judged.
I was concerned. Where is this headed?
What are your intentions?
You would always say, "I came here to be with Russ, not with you."
That hurt.
You don't know when you're coming back.
It makes me think that you're trying to get away from me.
I feel like my marriage could be lost.
I'm going to miss you. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
Russ told his parents that he wanted me to fix our issues, our differences.
I'm actually agreeing with him.
I decided that if I wanted to know what's going on
with Patty and what happened in the past,
the best way actually is to talk to her.
But this is not gonna be easy, because...
Well, who wants to talk like that
with the mother-in-law?
Hello. Hello.
How are you?
I was finding those baby pictures you wanted to see. Oh, yeah?
I would love to see it. Right, have a seat and I'll go get 'em.
Russ came to talk to us to tell us Pao has some concerns
about where the relationship is, where it stands.
So this conversation with Pao today,
I'm not sure which way it's gonna go, how it's gonna turn out,
other than I hope for the best for it.
I can't believe I haven't seen these photos before.
Well, we don't get 'em out much, I guess. No.
Russ said that he had a job offer here in Oklahoma.
I wanna be a grammy that's there for the grandchild.
I want Russ to feel comfortable
that his wife and his mom have a good relationship.
Here he is.
He looks so cute.
I asked Patty to show me some baby pictures of Russ,
just because this is kind of like awkward.
Like, I want to say so many things but, at the same time,
I never had to talk with Patty.
We never got to sit and talk.
How are you doing?
Uh, well, you know...
What are...? How did you feel when you found out we were expecting?
We were excited for you guys, cos we know Russ has always wanted children
and we were glad you were in agreement.
I think I remember I said at the beginning
that I didn't wanna have kids, that - You did say that.
Yeah, I did.
I know that, at the beginning, it was really overwhelming for me.
Like, I didn't know how my life was going to be,
moving here, and I have a way to dress, I have a way to act.
I'm coming to a different culture and I feel like...
..I just felt that I needed to change who I was to be accepted.
Well, we were not familiar with your culture.
And so it was something that we were learning.
I felt that you guys thought I wasn't the right person for Russ.
Everybody think that, when a foreign come here,
they just come here because they wanna marry an American,
get the Green Card and all those things.
Of course, there is always that question.
I didn't know if maybe the Green Card,
or if it was just you wanting to advance your career
here in the United States.
So we had those reservations,
because you did fight a lot.
What we saw with the fighting was just the loud, verbal things
and, as a parent, I was concerned.
Where is this headed?
What are your intentions?
I did not think that she was the one.
You know, is this the girl you really wanna marry?
And you fight like this?
Can you work it through?
I just had concerns, just because he was my son.
We fought a lot but, at the same time, I don't know,
I just felt that it was stressful at the beginning for me
because I wasn't able to fit in, in here.
I was trying very hard to understand where you were coming from
and I would actually talk to other Latino women
to say, "Help me understand what Pao is feeling."
But I felt you weren't accepting us.
I felt you would push us away.
You were cold.
I mean, you had a wall up. Nobody could break it.
As far as I remember, you would always say,
"I came here to be with Russ, not with you."
That hurt.
Yeah, but it was because it's hard to try
when you are being judged by the way you are.
Like, when I did the photoshoot, you were so upset and you...
You mean on the beach? Yes, that photoshoot.
Eyes to me.
(CAMERA SHUTTER CLICKING) Beautiful.
Good.
Don't be too conservative on me.
(BOTH LAUGH)
I would not think that somebody in my family
would possibly do a nude photoshoot.
Yeah. This is what I do.
I can't hide it.
I can't stop doing it because my mum are fine, my father is fine,
and I just feel like I always been like that.
I felt that I was being judged.
I'm sorry you felt that way. Yeah.
You do represent our family though
and we do want our family represented well.
But I feel part of that unhappiness
was because you wouldn't allow us to get to know you.
And now that you're getting to know us,
you could possibly come back to Oklahoma
and let that relationship grow.
(SIGHS) I don't... I don't think so.
It makes it harder. I know.
But if the opportunity were to come,
I would hope that you would consider it
and not just say, "No, I'm not going back."
I think that being able to talk to Patty
about the things that happened in the past, it helps
but at the same time, even if I fix the situation with Russ' parents,
doesn't change the fact that I do not want to live in Oklahoma.
I don't want to go back.
I'm happy that you-you were able to talk to me.
Like, it means a lot.
It means a lot to me too.
Yeah. Aw! I want a hug.
I feel better after talking with Patty,
because I don't think she realised
how uncomfortable it was for me at the beginning.
This is good. This is a good beginning. (CHUCKLES)
Hopefully, now we can have a better relationship.
We're making Russ proud. I hope so.
Yeah, he's gonna be really happy with all this.
Let's eat a cookie. Go get a cookie? (LAUGHS) Yes.
# This is me, here I come
(GRUNTS) Tiny car. # This is me, here I come
# And I can't stop And I won't stop #
All right, sweetie, let's go see the animals.
Are you excited? Let's go this way.
Let's go this way.
Azan and I are gonna go on a stress-free vacation
and we're going to Grenada.
I'm so excited because I can't wait to spend time with Azan.
But my family is not really supportive of our relationship.
It just doesn't make sense why he called off the wedding.
You don't have to have a big, full-blown wedding.
You guys could've done like we do here, you know...
..but you're not even that far. He ditched out at that.
He didn't ditch out of anything.
If he loves you as much as he says he does,
what assurances do you have that he'll actually marry you?
I'm going to the petting zoo with May and my mom.
But I don't want my mom to talk bad about me and Azan's relationship right now.
I get so tired of it.
Look. What happened? Look. Look.
He's... Aw!
Here.
Those... Do you see those things on his head?
Like, big, little horns.
Another rabbit? Where?
Oh, man. I'm looking.
(BLEATS) Argh!
(LAUGHTER)
Are you OK?
(GIGGLES)
Don't touch the goats.
Mom, you wanna sit down with me? Yeah, it's hot out here. Mm-hm.
Ooh, look at that swing, May!
Be careful, OK.
So, I spoke to Azan the other day...
..and we talked about Grenada.
Do you have the dates already set aside?
We're still working on it, but I think it is gonna be soon.
Yeah, this is...
It's not sounding good.
You know, what's it gonna cost to get him over there?
I love my mom, but Azan and I definitely need this trip
and she's going to see that there really was nothing to worry about.
I want you to be careful. Don't worry.
I'm gonna worry. There's no way to not worry.
How long is that gonna take?
Why don't you mind your own stuff?
My own stuff? ..family matters, all right. This is us.
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
(REPLIES IN SPANISH)
(SPEAKS SPANISH) X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
Morning. Good morning.
I'm here for an interview at nine o'clock. My name is Andrei.
Nice to meet you. Let me take you this way, sir.
Andrei, Miss Janet. Hi. Miss Janet, Andrei. How are you?
Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
Well, Andrei, what brought you in here?
OK. OK.
Where are you from? Uh, I'm from Moldova.
It's a country from Europe. OK.
Yeah, and I came here because my wife is American.
That's what it is. Aw! Yeah, approximately. OK.
Did you do any driving in the country that you came from?
Uh, no, not truck driving. OK. Yeah.
So how much experience do you actually have?
Uh, this moment of time, I have a month on the road.
OK. Have you had any over-the-road experience at all?
Yes, we did short-hauls and I did, like, interstates.
OK. In past month probably I did, like, ten deliveries, maybe more.
OK. We normally take drivers with six months or more experience.
Mm-hm. And you're not quite at six months. Mm-hm.
So the only thing we have available is putting you on the roster.
It's not full-time work and we will call you when we need you. OK.
So, when work is available for you,
we will contact you at the time. I understand.
We have a basic pay scale
for someone with your little bit of experience.
You're gonna start out about 38 cents a mile.
So, how many miles per week do you do?
On call, you could get anywhere from 1,500 to 2,000 miles a week.
That's about all you'd get.
So that's $1,000 bucks, approximately. Right, well,
you're talking anywhere from 900 to a little over 1,000 a week.
So, one question.
Do I get to turn down a job and still stay on the roster?
(CHUCKLES) OK.
Well...
If I set you up for a run, I'm expecting you to do it.
When I call you, it's usually, "I need you,"
and you could be out anywhere from one to 26 days.
Yeah, but, if I'll refuse, will I still be...?
Yes, I will remove you off the roster.
Andrei is interesting. He comes with very little skills in the trucking industry.
However, Andrei did not display to me
that he would want to be on the road for 26 days.
Well, uh, thank you very much for the interview.
Uh, I would like to speak with my wife first, cos we have to discuss details.
I can respect that.
Nice meeting you, OK. Yeah. Thank you. A pleasure to talk to you.
See, I'm gonna call you back if - Please call me.
Please call me. Thank you. I'll look forward to it. Bye-bye.
Thank you.
This morning, I woke up at five
to take Pedro to the airport.
I didn't realise how much I was going to dread it.
Like, I have this feeling of impending doom.
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
Mm-hm. Mm-hm.
I don't know what he wants to do in the Dominican Republic for so long.
He is telling me that he doesn't know when he's gonna come back,
but he needs a break from me.
He's making it seem like I've done something wrong to him,
and I've done nothing but try to make this marriage work.
I'm really sorry about yesterday.
You know that?
I wanted to apologise to Pedro for last night,
because I didn't want for that to be his last thought of his wife
while he's in the Dominican Republic.
I was just really upset because,
when you tell me that you don't know when you're coming back...
..it makes me think you're really just trying to get away from me.
Can you see it from my side at all?
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
I don't wanna be here too long without you.
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
# Such a defeat
# Will I ever learn?
# That is what
# You dealt to me
I'm going to miss you.
Amore.
# What have we done?
# Ooh-ooh-ooh
Uh... Where's my marriage?
Right now, I feel like my marriage...
..could be lost.
# What have you done?
What have you done?
# What have you done? #
# This is gonna be fun now Woo-hoo!
# This is gonna be fun now New York City!
# This is gonna be fun now
# This is gonna be fun! Hey! #
This is exciting. Away from kids, no husbands.
Bye. (LAUGHS)
This weekend, my girlfriends and I came to New York City.
Kinda need to hit the reset button
and, like, step away from Jay for a little bit.
Kinda like get that much-needed time away from each other.
Drink, hang out with the girls, go to the club, shop, eat,
just have fun, girl time.
I just can't wait to dance. And drink.
Drinks. We need some drinks. I need a dirty Martini.
It's hard to make a decision when Jay's around me 24/7
and kind of begging for me to stay in the marriage.
So I think me being away from him will give me the clarity I need
to make a decision on the fate of my marriage.
Yay! My plans are for us to have an awesome time,
especially Ashley.
She's been really stressing
and I really wanna make sure she has a great time and lets loose.
Champagne, ladies.
Wooo!
(LAUGHTER) I told you.
All right, well, now that I have a black and blue eye...
Cheers to a girls' weekend.
And black and blue eyeballs. Let's go get some food and drinks.
Ooh. Look at these drinks.
So Jay hasn't, like, reached out to me at all.
Did he say he had plans tonight? Uh-uh.
It's hard for me to, like, not be wondering what Jay's up to.
He is home alone
and I don't know if Jay will do something to get back at me
for going out with my ex, but it wouldn't surprise me.
Well, maybe he realises that you just need to get away
and he's giving you space. Maybe.
I don't think that he would do anything stupid, but...
I guess I didn't think he would last time, either.
I think it's important, you know, that we try to move forward,
but I just can't...
I know that you said that you spoke to the girl.
Like, who is she?
I talked to her. She was at senior week.
Do you mean, like, senior week college senior week?
No, like, high school.
I found out about the dating app
because one of the girls was calling Jay's phone
and it was sitting next to me and I spoke to the girl.
I found out she met him on a dating website
and that he was inviting her to my house.
I was...shocked.
What does she look like?
Nothing like me.
I'm nosey. I gotta see this.
(LAUGHS)
She looks really young.
Yeah, she looks super young.
Her profile pictures are - High school. ..high school.
The girl who Jay was talking to is complete opposite of me.
Not only is she way larger than I am in size,
but she's 14 years younger than me.
That concerns me because his ex in Jamaica was way opposite of me.
I'm kind of wondering: is he even attracted to someone my type?
Like, is he using me for a Green Card?
Like, what is going on?
So do you know, like, were they talking, like, a while?
Was it one conversation? I didn't even get into those questions.
Do you have other questions you would wanna ask her?
I feel like I need to know what happened.
All the days that I was at work for ten, 12 hours,
what was he doing? Yeah.
Was someone in my house? Did he sleep with someone?
I need to know and he is not gonna tell me.
Jay told me nothing happened between him and her.
He said he was bored, he was just talking to her
and that's it.
But...right now, I don't trust Jay at all.
Can you reach out to her?
I mean, would you guys call her?
Yes, I would. I think I would.
If it's still weighing that heavy on your brain...
You need closure. ..you need closure.
Shall we call her right now?
BOTH: Yeah.
(RINGING TONE)
I think that, if she finds out something that she doesn't want to,
I really think that it's time to go, it's time to let go.
(RINGING TONE) Once a cheater, always a cheater. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
Would you guys call her?
Yes, I would. Shall we call her right now?
BOTH: Yeah.
(RINGING TONE)
This is the voicemail box of six-four-six...
Are you leaving a message?
(BEEP)
This is Ashley, Jay's wife.
I was just wondering if you could give me a call back.
I had a few questions for you.
(BEEP)
I would like to know the whole story, and I really hope she calls me back
because if she doesn't, I might never get the answers I need.
Without them, I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust Jay again.
I think my biggest thing is...
..like, I feel like I've fought so hard for this marriage.
That's what I was just gonna say. Against so many people.
Not even against so many people, but immigration -
You wanted this so bad. I wanted it so long, so bad.
But you're still fighting.
I thought everything was gonna be, like, happy-go-lucky.
It definitely makes me sad, and kind of pissed off
to see Ashley this upset and struggling.
She's been through so much already.
You know, this isn't fair.
It sucks to know that, like, I failed.
You didn't fail. You didn't fail.
No, but I obviously failed in making a choice, a good choice.
You know what I mean?
Like, obviously Jay's dad raised him and we know he's a lady's man
but, like, in Jamaica, they do get married.
Like, it's not like it doesn't happen, but it's not like here.
Most of them are not faithful
and most of them don't really care if they're not faithful.
So you're worried he's gonna be like his dad?
It definitely makes me look like a fool
staying with someone who did this to me.
But, just because someone hurt you, that doesn't make all of your feelings for them disappear,
and that's the worst part.
You know, I love him but then, on the other hand,
without the answers I need, I'm, like,
I don't think I can forgive him.
# Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
# It feels like it's a new beginning
# Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh
# Can't wait for the next arrival
Now we've moved out of my dad's house that he gave to us rent-free,
we have so many expenses.
Andrei and I are going shopping at a second-hand store for babies.
We have to start getting tons of things, cos we've literally gotten zero items.
# There's more to life than just survival #
It's cute.
So we need everything that's cute.
I don't usually shop second-hand, like, ever... (CHUCKLES)
..but Andrei has been looking for a full-time trucking job.
He recently had an interview but, until then, we have to be smart
and just try to save money as much as we can.
Look at these little shoes.
(CHUCKLES) They're so cute.
Andrei.
I literally don't know what planet Andrei is living on,
but we cannot afford to be so picky.
I'm kind of the one being realistic here
and it's kind of a hard spot to be in.
How was your interview, by the way?
It was fine.
If they offer me, there'll be 2,000 miles per week
and she says you start at 38 cents.
It's not gonna work, look. 760 bucks.
So trucking is... It's not what I wanted to do now.
Well, we need to get money,
cos we have tons of stuff to get.
I know, I know. We haven't got anything.
Don't push it, all right? I know what's going on.
I want you to think realistically here. I have it under control.
Right? I'm not so sure that you do.
In Moldova, I was working as a handyman and everything,
but we have, in Moldova, we do it by our hands.
We spent so much money for you to do the trucking school.
You got your licence and now -
You're - We're... Hold on a minute.
Hold on a minute. Hold on a minute.
Now we're figuring out -
Will you shut up for a minute?
My own stuff?
This is us.
This is seriously the worst time for him to be telling me this,
because we're about to have a baby.
So now we basically have to wait for somebody to read the ad
and hopefully respond and then interview you and hire you.
Like, how long is that gonna take?
I think you're being stupid.
I'll pretend that I didn't hear that.
As my due date gets closer and closer,
there's been a ton of financial stress.
My family is right.
It's not stress that a new mom should have to carry
and I just think that Andrei is, like, blissfully unaware
of what is to come and he needs to step it up.
We'll figure it out.
OK, well, I'm not gonna talk about it. You figure it out.
Let me know when you've gotten it all together.
(LIVELY LATIN AMERICAN MUSIC)
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
(GIGGLES)
Hey!
Oh, my God.
So, what's up?
Oh!
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
(LAUGHTER) Hi.
(GIGGLES)
(SPEAKS SPANISH)
Whoa!
(LAUGHS)
No.
No, no, no.
Woo. Cheers.
..90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?...
Jay's been messaging non-stop.
I received an offer. The job's in Oklahoma City.
I don't think it's fair. He doesn't need to be looking for other jobs.
Now I have to look bad again because I don't wanna go back.
Maybe we can go to Brazil.
I can meet your family.
Larissa's told me very little about her life back in Brazil.
OK.
You think you're gonna get married over there? Probably.
"Probably"?
I just hope she doesn't come back pregnant.
Pedro doesn't know when he's coming back.
He bought a one-way ticket to the island?
Something is crazy.
This is so foul.
(SPEAKS SPANISH) Yeah!
I don't know where he is, or even what he's doing.
Woo!
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