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WOMAN: Previously on 90-Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
I can't talk to you like this. I'm just-
Can you stop talking for one (BLEEP) minute?
I don't wanna fight or argue any more.
We can't just be like two prisoners in a house with each other.
I just feel like I need to give you one more chance.
Ask my dad for a job. No, I'm not gonna ask him.
Andrei has to realise that we don't have it together at all.
I'm stressed out and pregnant. I'm gonna solve it.
I've been thinking about coming to the Dominican Republic.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
(NICOLE SPEAKING)
Nicole spoke to Azan and Grenada was called off.
MAN: And coming up...
I tracked his location and he was at some random house. It's crazy.
You're gonna be going through a lot of pain.
I've had seven babies. It hurts like a (BLEEP).
How am I going to support my wife through this...labour?
This Moroccan knows exactly what's going on over there with Azan.
I'm not talking about something stupid like this.
(JOE SPEAKS)
Says Azan is just stringing Nicole on.
They're texting me. What do you want me to do?
Andrei is possessive at times.
Don't respond, I said. Give me it, now.
But you are a (BLEEP).
(SPEAKING SPANISH) Hey, there.
I feel like I'm walking into the lion's den.
(LARISSA SPEAKING)
OK.
After Larissa's case was dismissed, things were getting better at home.
But today, we were decorating for Halloween,
and my mother and Larissa got in a huge argument
because my mother doesn't like it when she touches her stuff.
(LARISSA SPEAKING)
That's another discussion. If you wanna have that discussion, we can, but...
I'm not.
(LARISSA SPEAKING)
(MIMICS CRYING)
You act like I should support you and do all these things.
This is a house we share with three people.
Period. I can't- But you are a (BLEEP).
"My husband is a (BLEEP)".
You should treat me with respect and not talk to me like that. I'm your husband.
I think you're just unhappy...
I can't mediate... You can't, because you are a (BLEEP).
I called Colt a (BLEEP)...
You've been through a lot these past few months.
But I want a family.
I want someone to love me. I want to love somebody.
I'm sorry it's not perfect. I'm sorry I have my mother here.
This is our life right now, and you knew it coming here.
I'm sorry that I don't have more money.
I'm not controlled. You're really controlled.
The only person that tries to control me is you.
OK, OK, OK! I can't talk to (BLEEP).
Larissa's freaking out right now.
And...I'm worried because
she's behaving the way that she was before she was arrested.
And I don't want anything bad to happen again.
I have no idea how to make Larissa happy.
I've tried everything.
Just when I thought things were getting better, they got worse.
(PEDRO SPEAKING)
(ALL SPEAKING SPANISH)
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)
(MAN SPEAKS SPANISH) (CHEERING)
(LAUGHTER)
(CHEERING)
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
(ALL CHANTING)
(ALL MURMURING)
(ALL TALK AT ONCE)
(ALL LAUGHING)
NICOLE: Ah...
Mm-hm.
(SIGHS)
So, this is our birth room.
Honestly, I know no-one in Oklahoma who has had a baby in a bathtub.
You both can fit in this one.
Is this someone who I want to be delivering my baby,
or do I want a doctor who went to school for this,
medical school for this?
(KNOCKS) Hello.
That's the problem I have. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
So, you know that advance that I got from my dad... Yeah?
It wasn't really an advance.
(KNOCKS)
What's up? Come on in.
How are you doing?
Doing all right.
Yeah.
Yeah, business is doing good.
Elizabeth asked me to talk to Andrei,
and I'm just gonna do this strictly for the benefit of my daughter
and I'm hoping that he'll say, "I'll swallow my pride,
I'll come to work for you, since I'm not doing the trucking any more.
Anything I can do to put bread on the table and pay my bills."
You know ever since you came over here, I'm concerned.
You being able to provide for my daughter.
What? It's not an old subject. When Elizabeth...
..came to me and said that you're not trucking any more...
So, what happened with that?
When my daughter comes to me,
and she's concerned because you're not trucking any more,
and she says, "OK, Dad, he wants to be a handyman..." Mm-hm.
And she says, "Hey, can you...can you help?"
Andrei...
Listen. Listen.
Elizabeth works for me, so I talk to her every single day.
I say, "How are things going?"
She's gonna open up and tell me that. We have a special relationship.
You're a very prideful guy. From your background...
Well, everybody's prideful, but I understand
that you don't want your wife's dad calling the shots...
Working for me... You feel like you're under my thumb.
But that's not the way it is.
If I give you a job,
it's because, number one, I need this job done.
And number two, if you need the work, that's a good marriage.
I'll treat you just like I treat any other guy.
I give you a job, I want certain results for certain...
That's the problem I have.
My daughter, she doesn't see me
lording over you and saying, "Oh, this is what you gotta do."
No. I tell you what...
You don't want it because of your pride.
There's a difference between opportunity and pride.
You don't want it because of your pride.
If that's the way you feel, then listen, dude...
I...I don't need you to work for my company.
I have qualified contractors out there that fix up my houses.
Now, Andrei has no understanding
of what it takes to get on your feet, financially, in America.
He thinks that he could just go out and find good employment.
But it's just not that easy. So he has no clue.
We don't need to do this back and forth.
I would rather be out of it.
The problem I have with Andrei is
it doesn't seem like anything I'm telling him is getting through to him.
Guess what? You've got to go to work. You've got to earn a pay-cheque.
So, yeah. He needs to suck it up and just get moving,
cos my whole goal is to make sure that my daughter
and my granddaughter are taken care of and provided for.
Fair enough.
PAOLA: Wow, the sun is really bright. Can't see. RUSS: Really bright, huh?
I'm almost eight months pregnant and I have so much to do.
But I haven't decided where I want to have the baby yet.
So today we're actually doing a tour at the birth centre
to show us the option that we have.
Hi. Hi, Paola. Hey, Russ. Come on in.
We're gonna do the great, wonderful birth-centre tour. Yay. Awesome. Cool.
And in Colombia it's normal to go to the hospital
and just go the traditional way,
but here in the US, I heard that they have the option
to do it in a birth centre with a midwife.
So I thought that that would be, like, a really cool idea.
So, this is our first birth room.
This is the larger of the two.
Um, it's usually the most popular room because it is bigger, it's quieter.
I can't tell you how many babies we've had born in that tub.
(CHUCKLING) It's very popular to labour in this tub.
So, normally how it works? Like...
So, you get to choose the position that you birth in.
You can be on your hands and knees, on your side,
you can be in the tub, in the toilet,
in the shower, on the floor, in the parking lot, I don't care.
(LAUGHING) Wherever you feel the need to go and have your baby,
we just follow around with a little bag.
So we're ready for any circumstance.
Paola can have whatever she wants at her birth,
whether it's candles and soft music
and, you know, rose petals or a marching band.
Like, she can do whatever she likes.
She's the one having the baby. She has to do what she feels is best for her.
So, here's our bigger tub.
This is nice. You both can fit in this one.
(ALL LAUGHING)
Honestly, I know no-one in Oklahoma
who has had a baby in a bathtub.
It's weird, like... What's going on here?
And is this someone who I want to be delivering my baby,
or do I want a doctor, someone who went to school for this,
medical school for this?
Now, what about pain, though? Like, you're gonna be going through a lot of pain.
How do we counter it taking the holistic approach?
Well, I'm not gonna lie. I've had seven babies. It hurts like (BLEEP), OK?
Like, I'm not even gonna lie. It does. (LAUGHS)
So, is there any way to counter the pain at all?
We do have available for moms
nitrous oxide, which is just basically laughing gas.
So, at the hospital, it's very structured, you know, it's bam-bam-bam.
But here I feel like it's a lot of pressure on...like, even me.
Well, I know what you're saying.
Just tell her how beautiful she is and what a great job she's doing.
Your job is to, like, be there and be her rock. Right.
Pao felt that I wasn't there for her after the miscarriage,
so now I just wanna support her and I wanna be there for her.
But in reality, how does this process break down?
And if we're not going to use any medication,
how am I going to be there to support my wife
through this labour that's gonna be intense
and painful for her?
You know what I'm saying? (MOBILE RINGING) Sorry.
OK, all right, honey. No problem. Um, we'll be here. So, any questions?
Um, I...I... I went through a miscarriage. Mm-hm. Yeah.
Like, I'm still struggling with that.
I'm scared. I'm nervous. Like... Right. Of course.
It's always, like... It's not that I'm being negative
but it's hard not to think about. I know.
And I feel like I haven't been that excited.
(SIGHS)
Of course you're going to have grief still.
And you really need to give yourself time and space
to acknowledge that grief, and also to...
It kind of feels like you're being a little bit...
disrespectful to the baby you lost
if you let yourself get excited about this one, you know? Right.
Like you're being disloyal. And I feel I'm scared, like, I don't...
Like, choosing the name and having everything... It just make it so real that...
(SIGHS) I just wanna prepare myself and... Yeah.
One of the things that I, um, often tell my moms
who have had pregnancy losses...
Write a letter to the baby. Put it in a box.
Put all your hopes and your dreams
and everything that you wanted for that baby into that box.
And then you can keep it
or you can take it out into a beautiful place and bury it.
But you really do have to acknowledge the baby that you lost.
When Colleen told me that maybe I should write a letter
in order to move on, to have closure...
I thought that was, like, a good idea because...
I wanna be able to have a better connection with this pregnancy
and I wanna be able to move on,
but without forgetting about my baby, the baby I lost.
After meeting you and talking to you, it's given me so much...
What I'm looking for. Mm-hm.
What I want with the birth, and...
It's helping me a lot. Yeah. Thank you. OK.
It means a lot to talk to you.
The idea of the birth centre, it had the good and the bad.
So that's why I have to think what's the best for us.
But we need to make a decision as soon as possible, because the baby is ready.
I'm hungry. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
# JESSIE POLAND: Take On Anything
(EXCLAIMS) Let's go get your sister.
(JAY EXCLAIMS)
(SOBBING)
Oh, God.
You excited to see Emily?
I'm gonna hold her first. (CHUCKLES)
Jay's been here almost a year
and he's not got to see his family since he left Jamaica.
And I'm kind of hopeful that with Poochie being here,
that maybe she can help us try to fix things.
He looks up to Poochie.
He respects her, and he listens to what she has to say.
We're finally here.
(POOCHIE EXCLAIMS)
Hi. Hi.
(LAUGHS)
(JAY SPEAKS)
Oh, let me hold the door for you. Oh, God.
(POOCHIE SPEAKS) (JAY REPLIES)
(POOCHIE SPEAKS)
Mm-hm.
(BABY SQUEALS)
(POOCHIE SPEAKING)
Since Azan cancelled the trip to Grenada,
I'm just trying to work and save up money to go back to Morocco.
Also, I want to look nice and look a little different,
so I've been trying to get healthy
and to lose some weight, and I dyed my hair a different colour.
My hair feels great, my hair looks great, and I love how purple it is.
(LAUGHS)
I'm disappointed that we're not going to Grenada cos I was really excited for it.
But I don't doubt Azan at all about what's going on
with the trip, with getting cancelled and his family emergency.
He just has some things to do and I'm not worried about that. Nothing serious, I hope.
No, he said everything is fine. He just...
There's something that he has to be there for.
I'm hoping for your sake that this is for real. OK.
THOMAS: All ready to go?
We're going to Grandma's house.
Yeah. Yeah.
Me and May have been staying with my sister Rachel and my brother Thomas,
but sometimes I feel like I can be a burden to them.
So today May and I are going to my mom's house,
because we don't like to stay at one house for too long.
Thanks for driving me over to Mom's. Yeah, not a problem.
I guess that it can't really be that easy.
Just got to hop from house to house, and with the Grenada trip being cancelled...
Stuff happens, you know. My life's complicated.
It feels like... I definitely can second that.
With the Grenada trip falling through...
It's tough because I don't know all the details
with whatever happened to Azan's family or whatever emergency he had.
I mean, it seems like he cancels a decent amount of times,
at this point, and it's very suspicious.
(MAY SPEAKS)
May! Hi! You got a kiss for Grandma?
Hey, Mom. Hey, sweetie.
Did you bring your whole house? No, just one of my suitcases.
So, how long are you staying? Just a few weeks. Until I go to Morocco.
The plan is to get married.
Isn't that a little scary? No.
The pattern so far has been
that every time you guys set a time, set a date,
something happens and it gets pushed off.
I mean, do we think we're finally past all that?
Cos the Grenada trip just completely blew up.
You know, Azan couldn't come because he had a family emergency.
Did you ever find out what it was? I know what happened.
So what is it?
Ever since Grenada got called off at the last minute,
I don't know what actually came up with his family emergency.
I'd like to think that that's really what happened,
that it was really a family emergency
and not just a way to get out of... getting over to Grenada.
But who knows?
I can't really tell you guys, cos it's like-
I had to live through that whole nightmare. If something happened to you guys,
I wouldn't go and tell other people about it.
At least he told you before you left.
Yeah, he's not gonna... Not ditching me or something, you guys.
I'll be honest, it's difficult
to look at the situation and not look down at it.
I think if he wanted to marry her right now,
he would have taken opportunities that he has had and gotten married.
So, how are you paying for the trip for Morocco?
I got most of the money back from my Grenada ticket,
so that was really good.
That's nice, cos that didn't happen for the Korea one. No.
But this one worked out that way, which was good.
Nicole would use her last red cent
to accomplish what she wants to accomplish,
which is to get over there, spend time with Azan and get married.
I am pretty sure this will be a huge waste of money.
(DOOR CLOSES) Hi, Joe. Hi, sweetie.
I come home and I find I've been invaded.
Here, you can sit by me.
Nicole's gonna be here for a little bit until she leaves for Morocco.
Which is soon. Which is soon.
I predict that she'll be back in six weeks,
not married. Whatever.
He's had a couple of chances to marry you and backs out each time.
Because it was too much money and too much stress.
And you think it's gonna be different this time?
Regardless of what she says... it's not gonna happen.
He won't marry her this time, he won't marry her next time.
You know, I...I still believe that Moroccan
knows exactly what's going on over there with Azan.
(THOMAS SPEAKS) Yeah. Oh.
Couple of weeks ago, a guy e-mailed me.
He is a Moroccan and he knows Azan.
Says Azan is just stringing Nicole on.
They call her names and they laugh about it.
I'm not even talking about that.
No, you're not talking about it because you don't wanna face reality.
No, because these people don't know him.
I don't care. I will walk away. I'm not talking about stupid messages
from people we don't even know, online.
I'm not talking about something stupid like this.
It's not real, and even if it was real,
I don't want to hear about it because they don't know anything. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
I'm not talking about stupid messages
from people we don't even know, online.
I'm not talking about something stupid like this.
It's not real, and even if it was real,
I don't want to hear about it because they don't know anything.
I know, Joe. I read that and, you know...
THOMAS: Can I get informed on some of this information?
The message says that he had a friend
who was over there and he was palling around with Azan.
And he said that Azan wasn't interested in marrying her at all.
What Joe heard from a message from some guy is probably not true.
I don't care what they think they know or have to say.
I don't want to hear it from anyone online.
(BREATHES DEEPLY)
People online don't have any good intentions.
I don't believe anything they say. He was very concerned about you.
How about we stop talking about other people who think they know us?
I wish my family could just support me
and not some guy online.
You guys know that I'm just gonna do what I believe in, anyways, OK?
This has got to come to a head eventually.
Either they're gonna wind up getting married or they're gonna split up.
It's never gonna happen. It's gotta have an end.
As long as she keeps feeding him money, it's gonna drag out like this. No.
Well, you wait and see. No, it'll come to a head. It'll come to an end at some point.
Everybody has an opinion about whether or not this is real,
whether or not this is gonna work out, whether or not he really wants to marry her.
And after meeting him twice,
twice now, I can see why Nicole believes Azan.
But suddenly we're back to the same old thing over and over again.
But I know Nicole will...
..defend Azan, probably with her last breath.
I realise you guys are all worried and I appreciate the worry...
Just... It seems crazy now, but just trust me and you'll see, OK?
I know it's a lot to ask.
Just... Please?
I am gonna go to Morocco because right now I'm in love with my fiance,
who I plan to marry, hopefully this time...
..if that makes any sense. I don't know, I just...
In a roundabout kind of way. (CHUCKLES)
Yeah, things are fine.
Well, so be it.
Go.
# ROBIN LOXLEY & JAY HAWKE: Owe You Nothing
Today I'm travelling to the Dominican Republic to meet up with Pedro.
He doesn't want me to come with him on this trip,
but I don't care.
This is my last chance
to take a stand for myself and for our marriage.
I'm coming.
My parents think that it's a bad idea for me to follow Pedro,
because Pedro's family is not on good terms with me.
But he's mentioned starting a business, divorce...
And now I'm feeling like I really need to go there
and find out for myself what's going on.
(SIGHS)
Mmm, look at you.
Aww...
Oh, it was good. I slept the entire time.
You really surprised me by showing up.
I wasn't sure if Pedro was gonna be waiting for me or not,
but he surprised me.
And the fact that Pedro did bring me flowers and a balloon
makes me see a glimmer of hope
that he may want to put forth the same effort that I'm putting forth.
We better be going to a hotel.
Don't try to take me to your mother's house.
While I'm in the Dominican Republic,
I'm not going to stay with Pedro's mom and sister,
because I don't trust them with anything.
I'm just gonna leave it at that.
So, what have you been up to here?
In your life?
(SIGHS)
Your mom always tells me to get a divorce from you.
Why would I want to see her?
How about your mom shows some respect to me?
Oh, I'll go. I will go.
I'll go.
I'll go out of respect for you.
I'm gonna go out of respect for you.
But your mom... She better show some respect to me when I come.
All right.
So, if everybody's respecting everybody,
it should go well.
Let her know.
# THE MIGHTY LITTLES: Way Up High
(HUMMING)
ASHLEY: Jay's brother and sister and niece have been here for a couple of days.
It's just nice to see Jay so happy right now
cos, you know, he hasn't seen them in a long time.
(MIMICS CAR ENGINE)
I hope that by Jay's family visiting for a while,
it gets him out of this funk that he's been in.
And I've definitely been trying to turn things around and...
move forward and past the drama, at this point.
(POOCHIE EXCLAIMS)
Oh, are those Christmas trees?
Yeah. Yo!
I've never cut down a Christmas tree.
I get my fake one out from my basement and I just put it up.
But Jay is like,
"Now that I'm in America, I need to go cut down a Christmas tree."
So it's like we're starting a new tradition,
and I'm really excited for that.
Hi! Hello. Hi. Welcome.
You're gonna pick up a hand saw?
(LAUGHTER) Let's hope not. I can't promise you anything. OK.
(EXCLAIMS) No.
What about that one?
Which one? That one.
No, I don't like it.
(LAUGHTER)
(ASHLEY SPEAKS)
(JAY SPEAKING)
I like that one.
I love that one. We found our Christmas tree. All right.
You know what you're doing?
Don't cut my leg.
# Saw, chop, chop, chop with a chop, chop, chop #
# Chop, chop, chop and you saw, saw, saw Oh, you chop, chop, chop... #
(BABY CRIES)
(LAUGHS)
POOCHIE: Finally.
(MOTOR STARTS)
It's definitely heart-warming
to see Jay so happy with his family here.
I just wish that he could always be that happy.
I still have hope that we can get back
to where we once were in our relationship,
because I do love him and we've worked so hard to get here.
(POOCHIE SPEAKS) Yes. I know.
(POOCHIE SPEAKS) (EXCLAIMS)
So, you've gotta connect them and make sure it works.
# Fa-la-la-la-lah, la-la, la, la #
My kids are actually with their father this weekend,
so the plan is to just put the lights on and get it in a stand.
Um, we're not gonna decorate the tree without my kids here.
So once the kids come back, we'll all do it together.
I'm gonna start from bottom. Where do you start from, Ash?
The bottom. Go up. Below average.
So, you have to do it plugged in?
You don't have to, he's just doing it that way.
Not so tight. You're pulling the tree.
Putting all the Christmas lights is not very easy
because I'm, like, a perfectionist.
So I need the tree to be like, you know, the perfect tree.
Uh-uh, Jay. Stop. Stop, Jay. Jay, stop. What?
They're way too far apart. This whole section has no lights.
(JAY SPEAKING)
No, no, no. That's not how you do it.
You don't go all the way up and all the way back down with another row of lights.
Why? Cos you don't.
I'm trying to have fun with Jay and his family,
but there's definitely still that tension
and slight bickering going on between the two of us.
No, you just have the thing right here.
That's what I'm saying. (POOCHIE SPEAKING)
You know? Listen. I don't know what you're saying.
If you make them too tight, you're squeezing the whole tree.
You can't do it like that. (JAY SPEAKS)
Jay and Ashley here in America
is so much different than Jay and Ashley in Jamaica.
In Jamaica, they were always having fun.
Now that they're here... I don't know, it's weird.
(JAY SPEAKS) I'm trying to help you. Oh, my God.
(POOCHIE SPEAKS) That's just Jay all the time.
Poochie, do you wanna do one? Yeah, I wanna do one.
Here, I'll take Emily.
I know that she and Jay have been having some problems,
so I'm kinda worried.
But I'm just having faith because I want them to work.
(SNIFFLES)
I'm in the last trimester of my pregnancy,
and I try not to talk about the miscarriage
because it always makes me sad.
But I wanna try anything.
I wanna be able to have a better connection with this pregnancy,
and I wanna be able to move on.
So, when I was talking with Colleen at the birth centre,
she said that I should write a letter,
a letter to the baby I lost,
to be able to have a closure,
to be able to move on and appreciate this pregnancy more.
(SNIFFLES)
# BRUCE MAGINNIS: Made Of Stone
Hey, mi amor.
You all right? Yeah. I was just, um...
You're crying. Yeah, I was just writing a letter to the baby.
I really respect Colleen's advice
on writing this letter to our baby that we lost.
I think this is very healthy for Pao because...
Pao's the one struggling the most out of the two of us.
"To my little angel...
My sweet angel, I want you to know...
..that even though we never got to meet you, we loved you so much.
When we found out that we were expecting you,
we were the happiest people in the world.
You changed our lives in seconds."
(SIGHS)
"But that happiness was taken away so fast." (VOICE BREAKS)
This miscarriage... It does haunt me.
You feel so helpless. (BREATHES DEEPLY)
So many emotions that you're going through.
It's so hard. (SOBBING)
But you have to put on a brave face,
cos the man of the house... (SIGHS)
That's what I feel I have to do.
"Now you have a little brother."
(CHUCKLES SOFTLY)
That's a happy tear.
"And I know that you are happy for us.
Mi bebe, it's time for us to let you go...
(VOICE BREAKS) ..but you'll be in our hearts for ever."
Love you. That's beautiful.
Absolutely. You did great.
It wasn't easy to write it.
No, I can imagine.
It wasn't easy to read it. (LAUGHS) I know.
I needed to let out all my feelings
and what I was expecting and what I wanted.
When I wrote it, I did it with my heart.
Sometimes it's hard to find the right words, the right thoughts
and I felt like,
when Pao put it into writing, her baby deserved that.
We have a bundle of joy on the way
and that's what we really want to focus on.
And we can lift our baby that we lost up
and give it all the respect that we can...
..as we move into this new stage in our life.
Love you so much. I love you too, baby.
I am sorry for all this. This is your house, too.
I'm done. I can't do it any more. I can't. I'm too old.
You mean that you wanna move out? You guys don't want me here. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
# SHRIDHAR SOLANKI & SIDH SOLANKI: Reason To Believe
(SHOES SQUEAKING) Oh, hi, Squeaky Squeakerston.
(ALL LAUGHING)
Why are your shoes squeaking so much? I don't know.
It's been a stressful pregnancy because...
Andrei decided to quit trucking
and turn down handyman work with my dad.
But today I don't wanna worry about Andrei.
I am so excited to finally do this registry.
I just wanna focus on the baby and have fun.
You ready to pick out some stuff for your registry?
Do you have an idea of what you want? Or what you think you need?
I registered, but I don't think I realise, like, what I need.
Andrei and I literally have nothing for the baby.
But thankfully, my sister Becky's throwing me a baby shower.
So I am here in Jenn's house
to meet with her and Megan to do my baby registry.
I mean, we can tell you our favourite stuff.
That was stuff that we actually lived by.
Jenn and Megan both have kids and they've been through this,
so I think they'll be able to help me.
If I did this registry on my own,
I would just put a bunch of cute clothes on there.
(LAUGHS) And maybe some headbands.
OK, so, these bouncies are good to have.
You can actually feed the baby in them, like, spoon-feedings... Mm-hm.
..until they're ready to, like, sit up in a high chair.
I was going through a checklist of things
and I was like, "I don't need a high chair right now,
I don't need, like, a crib..."
Well, you definitely need a crib.
I don't even know if I wanna get a crib, because
I don't think we're gonna stay where we are that long.
You just moved in.
We don't wanna raise a baby in an apartment, necessarily.
You guys would, like, break a lease? Yeah.
You have to pay money to get out of leases.
And, I mean, in a house you're gonna have to pay more a month than an apartment.
I mean, you do have a lot to consider, like...
He doesn't even have a solid job. Yeah, I know.
And it's like, what if you guys run out of money?
Andrei is no longer trucking.
He went on one trip. (LAUGHS)
I mean, I actually come from a family of truckers.
My dad's actually been a trucker for over 30 years,
and the job, clearly, is not for everyone,
but there is a lot of money that you can make.
But, I mean, he gave it, like, one trip.
I don't think he gave it a fair shot. No. Not at all.
Well, now he's...
wanting to do, like, handyman stuff, you know.
And Dad, all of his properties are in Florida,
and that's where the handyman jobs are.
I'm like, "Do that, or you're gonna have to get references,"
and he doesn't want to, like, accept a job from Dad.
But, like, he has to get experience under his belt.
That's the thing that bothers me about him.
He is so, like, quick to be like,
"Oh, I'm this macho man. I got this." But you don't.
You don't got this. Like, you don't have it.
I know, but I think just being, like, the man that he is,
it's kind of, like, a pride thing.
Honestly, Andrei is in no position to be prideful at this point.
I think he needs help, it's clear.
And I feel like you need to tell him,
"Look, we need to get from here to there. So how are we gonna do that?
You don't know? OK, cool. I'm gonna have my family help me."
I definitely feel like I might share too many things with my sisters
about Andrei and the stuff that he does wrong.
But, like, they don't need to question me and criticise me on it.
Andrei is my husband and I love him and we're gonna be a new family together.
I really don't want to focus on all of this negativity.
Him also, too, like...
I mean, I'm sure it wasn't easy for him
to just, like, leave everything and come here to a new country
and, like, he doesn't have any of his family around him.
I don't think that's a good excuse.
Andrei could have a relationship, a good one, with all of us,
and it's always like he's on defence mode.
Thinks he's under attack- Right, because you guys haven't been very supportive from day one.
How? How have we not been supportive?
You immediately were on his case when he got here.
We thought he was a little controlling, which he's proving.
Like, we're actually very welcoming and nice people, like...
Everyone that's around our family loves us.
You guys can't be so, like, on the defence mode with every single situation.
Can you imagine everybody shoving down your throat
advice all the freaking time? Yes, we've all been there.
You've given us advice. We will figure it out.
Do you understand where it's coming from?
You can't even breathe. We've been in your shoes.
You're giving advice all the time where we can't breathe.
Just...let us figure it out.
You should be thankful. Some people's families don't give a (BLEEP) about them.
Some people don't have families.
I know you're concerned, but it doesn't concern you. You need to butt out.
We're adults. We can figure it out.
Then that means not going to Dad for money,
which I feel like is what is going to happen.
I don't plan on asking Dad for money.
But if I did, that wouldn't be either of your business.
Well, I- We're just saying, like...that's gonna happen.
I actually feel bad for Dad because I feel
he gets taken advantage of, especially with Andrei.
Just cos my dad talks- We're concerned.
It's out of concern for your well-being... Yeah.
..and your baby's well-being, so...
It's not fair for you to tell us to butt out
when we're helping you with your registry.
That's what I'm interested in. And with your life.
I don't want to hear a lecture about Andrei.
He needs to figure his (BLEEP) out.
He thinks he's above everyone and doesn't need anyone's help
when you know damn well they need some help, cos they're struggling.
On the struggle bus, Andrei's driving, Libby's the passenger, so...
As much as I wanna listen to all your (BLEEP), I'm leaving.
Why do you get so upset?
I came here to do the baby registry and you're talking about Andrei.
No, we're talking about life advice. No.
OK, bye. Bye. Good luck with that.
# Say, how do you know 'tis the season?
# Joy, it lives inside your heart
# Ding-dong, ding-dong, ding-dong, ding... #
POOCHIE: Wow. Celebrating 50 years of lights.
So beautiful. I've never seen anything like this.
(WHOOPING) This is the biggest Christmas tree I've ever seen.
My family, they've been here for a couple of days
and having my family here has been awesome so far.
Today I'm taking Ishmael and Poochie
to go look at some lights that Ashley told me about.
Uh-huh.
How many pepper lights do you think there are? What?
How many lights? Can I say it's five million pepper lights
or something like that? (POOCHIE LAUGHS)
"Pepper lights" is what we call Christmas lights.
In Jamaica, we just call it "pepper light"
cos we think it's shaped like a pepper.
There's nowhere in Jamaica you can go and see stuff like this in Christmas.
We see pepper lights, but not this much. Yeah.
Five million and more lights.
Their light bill must be expensive. (LAUGHS)
Yo, it cold. Huh? It's super cold. It's beautiful, though.
I think we can go in this building right here and warm up.
We definitely do not have nothing like this back in Jamaica.
Welcome to heaven. (WHOOPING)
So, I am definitely happy
that I'm making memories with my family in America.
This is cute.
So warm inside. I know.
You thinking about Ashley?
Ashley and Jay have been having some problems, so I'm...
..not really on anyone's side.
I mean... You can't do anything.
You don't seem happy. You guys are arguing a lot.
It's just us, we're talking. Ashley isn't here. Just be honest.
Are you happy here?
I'm not really happy, but, you know, um...
I love Ash, so I'm trying to bring things back to how it was.
Everyone at home misses you.
I know. Miss you guys too.
Just have to hope everything works out.
Trust me, I'm keeping my finger crossed. Trust me.
# EXTREME MUSIC: Back Of My Mind
COLT: Larissa and I have tried to work on our relationship,
and I thought things were getting better between us.
But today my mother and Larissa got into an argument,
and as a result, Larissa and I got into a fight again.
And I have no idea how to fix the situation.
Knock, knock. Hey.
Hey, Goki. Come sit down.
Sorry to interrupt your...
nightly brush.
I just wanted to check in on you. How you doing? OK.
Sorry about that.
I don't know why Larissa did that.
Prove a point.
(SIGHS) Is she OK? Is she upset?
We're not really talking right now, but I think she's OK.
I'm upset that Larissa is acting this way.
But at the same time,
Larissa was honest with my mother about her children.
So I wish that my mother
would at least try to get along with her,
because it's hard for Larissa to open up.
I don't know. She just started with it.
I understand you're set in your ways, but...
You can ease up a bit. No. Come on. No.
I don't want you to move the slot machine.
But... It's not a big deal.
I understand that.
You have a certain way about you.
You both are very stubborn people. I love you both dearly.
I wish that we could co-operate and find harmony.
That's the problem.
Staying out of the way. She does her thing, you do yours.
Then you collide like asteroids.
I am sorry for all this.
This is your house, too, and you shouldn't have to...
Do you mean that you wanna move out?
My mother and I have lived together for my entire life.
So if my mother moved out, I'd be very sad...and guilty.
Plus I don't want my mother to be alone.
I think we can...live together. We're three people. Adults.
I just want everyone to be happy, honestly.
# L.A.M.: My Arms Are Open
Thank you. You're welcome.
Jay's brother and sister and niece are here for a couple of days.
Having his family here has been great.
I know Poochie's aware that Jay and I are going through such a hard time,
so I'm hopeful that maybe she can give us some advice
on how to work through all of this.
I'm so glad that you guys could come. I know Jay missed you guys so much.
His spirits are definitely, like, much better right now that you guys are here.
Well, I mean you know he was on that dating site or whatever. Yeah.
That's because he knows that you're gonna put him in his place.
Basically, um... some girl's calling his phone, like, really late at night.
It was obvious that he was up to no good, so I checked the phone bill
and I messaged the girl, and she was basically,
"Yeah, I met him on a dating app
and he told me he just moved here from Jamaica.
He didn't know anyone. He'd just opened a tattoo shop."
And then was telling her how beautiful she was.
Some things he wanted to do to her.
Yeah.
Then he invited her to my house. It wasn't just a friendly conversation.
He was being very inappropriate with her.
He knew coming here that he couldn't work for a long time, so...
I'm not really sure what to say about that, but... Yeah.
At this point I'm not willing to file his adjustment of status because... Why would I?
Yeah, I love him.
But, even, like, after I caught him, he kept lying.
Like, I had his location
and he knew I had his location on his phone.
But he was, like, saying he was at the barber shop.
And I tracked his location and he wasn't where he said he was.
He was at some random house.
Um...
I think, honestly, if you truly love someone,
you would never do anything to make them hurt.
(SNIFFLES)
It just sucks.
Like, he makes me feel like I'm not good enough.
Stop texting them. They're texting me. What do you want me to do?
Just stop texting them. Ignore them?
I'm not gonna let them keep talking about (BLEEP).
Don't respond, I said.
(SPEAKING SPANISH) X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
(GROANS)
They're so freaking annoying, I swear.
What's their deal? (SIGHS)
Like, I went over there to do the freaking baby registry,
and then they start giving me advice, yet again, about you.
And, like, "Oh, you should have done this.
You shouldn't have done that." All right.
Like, are you kidding me right now?
I stormed out of Jenn's house
because I'm not listening to their (BLEEP).
My sisters think that Andrei can benefit
from being on good terms with my family,
and absolutely, I agree.
However, I know how they felt about him before he got here,
and how unsupportive they were and they still are of him.
So he's not gonna just be fake
and smile and act like everything is great, when it's not.
You're not starting the day like this, OK? I'm over this.
This is a lot... You're over it?
Yes, cos I have a headache. I'm enraged
because I had to defend your ass. I don't give a (BLEEP).
You should give a (BLEEP). I don't give a (BLEEP).
Maybe you should have a better relationship with them and talk to them more.
I won't excuse myself... You always have a bad relationship.
How many times do I have to tell you? Figure it out.
I'm not giving excuses in front of them.
I'm pissed. Yet again, it is another family drama
and he doesn't want any part of it.
Andrei needs to figure out his relationship with them,
because I don't want to live in stress,
especially when there's a child coming.
Great. Now they're texting me, asking me why I (BLEEP) left.
(SCOFFS) Like, they won't stop.
Like, seriously, I told them they need to back up. You all have a say in my...
Just back off a little bit. Just... A little bit of boundaries.
That's all that we request.
(ANDREI SPEAKING)
Stop texting them.
They're texting me. What do you want me to do?
Just ignore them? Just stop texting them.
I'm not gonna let them keep talking about (BLEEP).
Don't respond.
Cos if you're gonna respond, you entertain them, all right?
Don't respond, I said.
Do not (BLEEP) grab my phone out of my hand.
Get off. Give me it now.
No, you're not gonna get your phone. Give me it.
Don't text. Give me my phone right now.
If you promise you're not gonna text them. No.
Give me my phone. Don't text them.
Tell them to get the (BLEEP) out of my life. Give my phone right now.
Tell them to get off. Andrei...
Listen... Hand me my phone. Here is your phone.
Tell them to get off our life. Do not ever snatch anything out of my hand ever again.
I pay for it. You need to be here and listen and let me vent.
But you don't listen. You don't need to be angry as well.
So rude.
I think that Andrei is definitely a little possessive at times.
But right now,
I literally saw a side of him that, like, was not OK.
Like, I didn't like it. It was very, very poor behaviour.
They're all coming down because-
The freakin' child will be born into a negative (BLEEP) environment. Don't think that.
Don't even say that. Seriously.
But, like, look at how everybody is acting. It's ridiculous.
At this moment in time, I literally just feel like
the only person that I have is the child inside of me,
because my husband's not making much effort with my family,
and my sisters are over here being extremely critical.
You want your jacket?
It's raining...
if you didn't notice.
(SIGHS)
(PEDRO SPEAKING)
(PEDRO SIGHS)
Well, this is going to be quite awkward.
She has to show me that she's respecting me.
I'm a little nervous about seeing Pedro's mom,
because Lidia has never liked me.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
I don't wanna go. But I'm gonna go,
because I hope that from now on he'll make the same effort with me.
(LIDIA SPEAKING SPANISH)
Hi, how are you? Nice to meet you. And you.
I asked for a translator because Pedro's mom and sister
always speak really fast
because they know that I can't understand them.
I don't know what to expect when I see her.
I feel like I'm walking into the lion's den. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
(PEDRO SPEAKS) (LIDIA SPEAKING SPANISH)
(PEDRO SPEAKING SPANISH)
CHANTEL: Hey, there.
OK, so, they were spending such a good time with Pedro here
because there's been quite a time without seeing him.
Then you came and then everything breaks up.
OK, well, that's really offensive.
But that's OK. I came here for Pedro,
and I'm going to spend the time that I planned with him.
Oh, I didn't wanna talk about the things of the past.
That was then. And we don't have to talk about that. No, no, no.
(TRANSLATING INTO SPANISH)
OK, um... OK.
Your family didn't know how to behave.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
And your mother was the one who initiated the problem.
No, no. I don't wanna start blaming people here, but...
you got loud first.
And the way that your son yells
by pointing his finger in people's faces,
it's very offensive to a grown woman. Yeah, OK.
So of course she'd yell back.
There I have to disagree.
But it's OK. We can disagree here.
(PEDRO SPEAKING SPANISH) I'm not going to flip over your table, honey.
No. (SPEAKING SPANISH)
She says she's not going to allow any more disrespect.
Mm, OK, scoot back.
OK.
OK, Mommy. Mommy...
OK?
Hey, now, hey, relax. (SPEAKS SPANISH)
When Pedro is around his family, there's no support.
So I have no choice but to fight my corner.
It makes it look like all the things that they were saying are true, but it's not.
I'm just trying to defend myself.
So, all right, it was a pleasure.
But go get your clothes so that we can go to the hotel.
(EXHALES)
(PEDRO SPEAKING IN ENGLISH)
OK.
MAN: Next time on 90-Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
To be honest, I'm thinking I wanna have the baby in the house.
You're, like, set on that?
What if something does go wrong?
You (BLEEP) up. Talking to other women. You're a (BLEEP) child.
WOMAN: Hello, everyone.
Andrei's being an (BLEEP).
It's my house and it's my sister. It makes sense.
(LARISSA SPEAKS) COLT: She gives me attitude for everything.
Like, "Here, just pay this, do this, fix my problems."
I can't do that any more. I'm done.
Larissa, you... Where you going?
It's not fair.
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