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NARRATOR: Previously on 90 Day Fiance, Happily Ever After?
I checked his location and he was at some random house. Crazy.
He needs help, it's clear.
As much as I wanna listen to all your (BLEEP), I'm leaving.
Andrei thinks he's above everyone and doesn't need anyone's help.
They're texting me, what do you want me to do?
I'm not going to flip over your table, honey.
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To be honest, I'm thinking I wanna have the baby in the house.
You're like, set on that?
What if something does go wrong?
You (BLEEP)-ed up, talking to other women...
You're a (BLEEP)-ing child.
Hello, everyone!
Andrei is being a (BLEEP).
It's my house and it's my sister.
COLT: She gives me attitude at everything.
It's like, "Here, paint this, do this, fix my problems." I can't do that any more. I'm done.
LARISSA: Ugh. Larissa, where are you going?
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
COLT: No, I won't do it, I'm tired. Ridiculous.
(FOOTSTEPS APPROACHING)
No, no.
I can't talk when you're like this. Please stop talking for one minute?
Oh! We're not moving the (BLEEP)-ing slot machine.
Larissa, where are you going?
She's going crazy. She constantly is (BLEEP) about everything.
She doesn't work with me for anything.
And she said, "Oh, hey, $240, give me, give me, give me." No, it's not how it works.
I can't just give you money. I'm not made of money.
I have rent, I have bills, I have her bills.
I can't do it, I won't do it. I don't care.
She just told me a day before, "Here, pay this, pay all of this." Ridiculous.
I've been in the Dominican Republic for a day now,
and I'm starting to feel like coming here
may have been a bad idea.
Yesterday I met with Pedro's mother and we argued with each other.
She was rude to me and so disrespectful,
and still blamed my family for the fight.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
OK?
Pedro came back with me to the hotel last night
which, I thought, was a good sign.
Today, we're walking through Santo Domingo
just trying to spend some time together with just the two of us.
But he's still super cold towards me.
Pedro is upset that I'm here
and the fact that I argued with his mom
makes it harder for me to get back into Pedro's good graces.
I told you why I came here. I came here because
I want you and I to work on our relationship together.
The first thing I said when I walked into your mom's house-
The first thing that I said when I walked into your mom's house
was, "That was then and this is now.
And I don't wanna talk about it." And I made that clear.
I came here, so that I can help you.
Yeah, I came here to help you.
Because you said that you weren't feeling like yourself.
I feel like right now you and I are more important
than my relationship with your mom and your sister.
I'm telling you, if I see your sister, it's just gonna be more problems.
I'm here for you.
His sister hates me and I don't really care for her.
I don't want to meet his sister. I have nothing to say to her.
That's just going to make our issues worse.
OK. Listen, I hear you, I get you.
Quiet. Yes, I'm hearing you.
OK, listen.
So, I can't promise that I'm going to fix it.
I can't make somebody like me.
I can't change the minds of other people about me.
But I can try.
I can show up,
I can be cordial. So I'll do that for you.
I can't promise you the outcome that you want,
but I can promise you my effort and you have to see that.
OK, ready?
I have a few weeks to go until the baby is here,
and we're finally building the nursery.
It has been really hard for me to actually connect with this pregnancy
and I'm always thinking about the baby I lost.
After talking with the midwife at the birth centre,
she told me that I should write a letter, so I can have some closure.
I decided that I was going to write it.
And writing a letter was really difficult for me.
(SNIFFLES) "Hey, baby, it's time for us to let you go.
But you'll be in our hearts forever."
Love it. That was beautiful.
Writing that letter, it helped me to say goodbye,
things I wasn't able to say before.
I'm just glad I did it, so I'm ready to prepare
for the birth of my son.
To be honest, I'm thinking more about I do it in the house.
Do you like the idea?
Of course, Russ wanted, like, for me to have the baby at the hospital.
Because I think Russ is going to be a little worried
I'm gonna go through a lot of pain
because probably he's gonna think that I'm going to go crazy on him.
But let's see. (LAUGHS)
I think there will be more control
and the baby will be ready to be here in his house
and I will feel more control in my own space.
You do? You're like set on that?
There are a lot of things that go through my mind or what's stressing me out
just to have a baby.
So then you add in a home birth.
There's no doctor around,
there's no medical support immediately there.
What if something does go wrong, you know?
What if we're in an emergency C-section?
You know, what's gonna happen at that point?
Whatever we need to buy, we'll buy it and do it.
To have the baby at home, it's a lot of pressure on me.
We gotta buy a pool.
But you can't just hook a hose up from your spigot outside.
I got to find a way to bring warm water into the pool.
On top of that, Pao wants to have this ambience.
She wants to have the right amount of candles
and the right amount of lighting.
Beyond that, we gotta be prepared for snacks.
And afterwards she needs to have a good, strong healthy meal.
So, I don't even know everything that we need
cos this is not normal at all.
So, I just want to make sure that we're prepared.
Mm, good job. Love you.
You're the biggest narcissist I've ever met in my life.
You're a (BLEEP)-ing child. Grow the (BLEEP) up. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
# I know it's not about us
# But all about you
# And who you think you are #
Hey, sis. Hey.
Today, Poochie, Ishmael and Emily are leaving
and I'm kind of sad because it was really nice having them around.
I really enjoyed Poochie's time
and just have someone to talk to.
Did you have fun? Yeah, I did.
Probably next time when I'm here, you know,
things will be OK between you guys
because it was very uncomfortable being here
when you're all mad at each other.
I know. (SIGHS)
I'm getting ready to go back to Jamaica
and I'm really worried about their relationship
because Jay told me what he did,
texting some chick on a dating site.
But you know, he didn't give me the full story
but Ashley did and it was really bad.
And I messaged the girl and she was basically like,
"Yeah, I've met him on the dating app.
And he told me he just moved here from Jamaica, he didn't know anyone."
And then was telling her some things he wanted to do to her.
And then he invited her to my house. Yeah.
I'm feeling so bad inside
because it's just three days after they got married...
I mean, what could be so wrong
that, you know, he just got up three days after and did what he did.
I thought Jay have changed
but what I'm seeing, like, that sounded like the old Jay.
Why is it that you didn't tell me the full story?
But you know you messed up, right?
So, are you done with all that online thing
and all the flirting and all the... Everything that you were doing?
Because honestly, I thought you changed.
I thought you were done with the (BLEEP) version of yourself?
I'm not even making a joke. I'm being serious.
Jay's sister was extremely disappointed in him
when she found out the whole story.
She definitely didn't know all of it and I think she was pissed.
I think she was hopeful that she could...
maybe help us a little bit,
but unfortunately, things are really bad right now
and I'm sure that it also hurts her
because she likes us together and wants to see us happy.
To be honest, you knew this when you came here.
You knew that you were gonna come here and you couldn't work.
Wait, and it's temporary. You were here for 93 days.
We already discussed already that...
Why are you still sitting here trying to excuse what you did
or trying to act like it wasn't, like, a big deal?
When it was, in fact, a huge deal.
You are the biggest narcissist I have ever met in my life.
Somehow you go (BLEEP) around, talking to other women...
Well, get a dictionary and look it up.
Because somehow you (BLEEP) up
talking to other women. Saying you just (BLEEP).
You're a (BLEEP)-ing child. Grow the (BLEEP) up.
Cos you are (BLEEP).
I'm leaving here and I'm very sad, I'm not gonna lie.
I can't step in your shoes for one minute cos I won't do (BLEEP) what you do.
You have a horrible life here (!) It's really rough for you (!)
You need to grow up
and you need to just learn to forgive.
I mean, that happened some time ago,
I know you're hurt, but if you love Jay,
you need to just, you know, let it go.
Well, guys, I wish this conversation would have went better,
I was hoping to like squish this thing before I leave,
but... (SIGHS) ..doesn't seem possible.
Things have not got better. I don't see that in sight
and I'm just really worried. I just feel like
Jay is just too young and too selfish and too immature to ever understand
what he did or how I'm truly feeling inside.
I don't know what to wear. I don't know. (CHUCKLING) (SIGHS)
I'm seven months' pregnant and there is so much tension
right now in my family.
This is not how I envisioned my first pregnancy to be.
Wow, baby. You like it? Mm-hm.
Today is the day of our baby shower,
and I really hope that, like, no drama occurs
because I went over to Jenn's to do the baby registry
and she was being so ridiculous.
Dad knew this was gonna happen. He caught it.
He's like, "Andrei's gonna come over here. I'm gonna end up helping him."
But it doesn't concern you guys. You guys need to butt out.
He needs to figure his (BLEEP) out. As much as I wanna listen to all your (BLEEP), I'm leaving.
I'm trying to vent to my husband and then he makes things ten times worse.
Great. Now they're texting me asking me why I (BLEEP)-ing left.
Don't respond, all right? "Don't respond", I said.
Do not (BLEEP)-ing grab my phone out of my hand.
Give me it, now. No, you're not gonna get your phone.
Give me my phone right now.
Even though Andrei and I made up, he is still mad at Jenn.
Jenn definitely is like the hard head in the family
and she'll definitely ruffle your feathers and give you a run for your money.
So, since he moved to the US, they just...
they always get into it with one another.
And he knows like all the crap that she talks about him behind his back.
Jenn? Yeah. I don't know.
Will you get my shoes, please?
So you're looking forward to it, baby? Yeah.
I'm looking forward to seeing what kind of presents we get. (LAUGHS)
I'm so thankful that Becky offered to throw the shower for me.
It takes a huge weight off of my shoulders
because Andrei has decided to become a handyman.
But he still hasn't made much money yet.
Hello! BECKY: Are they here? Hello!
Hi. Hi. Happy baby shower.
Looks so pretty. Hi!
Our baby shower looks absolutely beautiful.
From the balloons, to the flowers to the cake,
to all the decorations and how she set up the presents,
it's like, Becky did such an outstanding job.
That's for your baby, not you.
Isn't it beautiful? Yes. Nice arrangement, Rebecca.
Hello, everyone. Hi, Jenn.
Hi, guys, hi.
Here we go. Right here. I'll set this right here.
Hello, Megan.
You wanna set that here. You got a spot right here.
Hi! Hi! How are you?
Hi. Hi. Baby bumps. (LAUGHS)
Let me see your dress. It's really pretty.
So do we want to open presents first?
EVERYONE: Yes!
Oh, this is big. Oh.
Aw, these are cute. (LAUGHS)
Andrei obviously didn't want me to be there
but there is no chance that I would never
not attend my sister's baby shower, ever.
Pretty wrapping.
I know.
Hell, no.
Thank you. You've got some great stuff.
Even if I was mad at her, even if she was mad at me,
I would still be there, period.
Come on, guys, have some cake.
Where's it from? I don't know. We don't really sing anything to you.
(SINGING) # Happy baby shower to you #
(LAUGHS)
What's up? You're asking me? Yeah, what's on your mind?
BECKY: What?
Look, you know what, I am always the calm one
and I don't want to get in the middle
of you guys' (BLEEP) which I think is (BLEEP).
You guys just need to make up and get over your differences.
Me hosting your baby shower... Shh.
What's happening? All right.
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You guys just need to make up and get over your differences.
Me hosting a baby shower... Shh.
What's happening? All right.
All right, come on.
Because I knew that it would be drama and I don't want drama.
I don't need extra stress.
Putting on a (BLEEP) is stressful enough.
It's my party, you know. It's my house.
But you offered for this. It's my sister's.
You should have told me. I didn't want her to miss out.
But you should have told me she's coming here.
Andrei is being a (BLEEP) and I'm actually disappointed
because it's not about him and however he feels.
It's about his wife and the baby shower.
What are you talking about? I don't feel that I deserve to get like...
this energy, this bad energy... What are you talking about?
Questioning who's on my guest list when I put this on for you guys.
He said that I should have told him that she's coming.
No, she's my sister.
Don't give her a hard time.
She's hosting this party and she put everything together.
Don't be annoying.
The only one who is ruining it is you right now, so stop it.
Andrei is burning every bridge that he can in my family.
And it's an awful situation to be in especially being pregnant.
Like, I'm going to lose my mind, I can't take this right now.
You can be mad at me and I don't care.
This party is wonderful and you did a great job.
Thank you for putting it on for us.
I don't know if I made it clear to him or not
but I hope I did that I don't ever need permission from anybody
to invite people into my own home.
And especially, I don't need permission to invite my own sister
to my other sister's baby shower.
Ready to go?
Right now? Yeah.
Bye.
Thank you, sister, so much. You're welcome. It's my pleasure.
Bye. See ya. Bye. Bye.
Bye. Mwah. Bye, see you later.
(ANDREI SIGHS)
What was he giving you a hard time about? About me inviting Jenn.
Does he think that he's gonna stop me from being... Like, bye. Does he think that
he's gonna stop me from inviting you to my own house?
Right. For our sister's baby shower?
Yeah, there's a lot of things that he needs to understand about our family.
I think it was...
pretty inappropriate of how you talked to Becky.
Could you have bit your tongue and waited until after?
Whatever. Like to put a (BLEEP)-ing stink on everything?
To put a damper on the evening
and then make everyone feel uncomfortable? (SIGHS)
The baby is gonna be here soon.
And this all needs to be resolved before she gets here.
We're gonna have so many family events in the future
and everybody needs to get along.
I don't want to bring a child into this, like, negative environment.
Now I'm turning into Mama Bear and that's not cool.
You got annoyed? Yes.
Gosh, you're unbelievable.
Hey, Pheebs. (EXHALES)
(PAOLA SPEAKING)
(BOTH SPEAKING SPANISH)
(LAUGHING)
(PAOLA SPEAKING)
(PAOLA'S MOM SPEAKING)
(BOTH SPEAKING SPANISH)
I'm freaking out right now. I think her fuse just blew up.
(DEBBIE SPEAKING)
How about your sister apologise to me?
This is the same, we got (BLEEP)
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I am freaking out right now because this afternoon
Larissa was arrested again.
My mother is on holiday, out of town
and today, Larissa and I had the house to ourselves,
I thought it would be a good day,
I thought we can hang out and have some fun
but that didn't happen.
Larissa and I were fighting most of the day
and I think her fuse just blew up
and everything that was bothering her just came out at once
and Larissa locked herself in the bathroom
so I deactivated her phone
and she was just yelling and screaming and hitting me.
I don't know who called the police
but Larissa posted my phone number online.
She was saying that I took her phone off and she's in danger,
and I guess people online called the police.
Police knocked on the door and Larissa and I were upstairs
arguing and when we finally came downstairs,
there were five police officers at the door with their guns drawn.
They kicked in the door. The door is damaged.
Both here and over there.
They grabbed me and pulled me outside,
and proceeded to handcuff me,
read me my rights, search me.
Essentially I was a criminal at that point,
even though I did nothing wrong.
After what seemed like a lifetime,
they decided to un-handcuff me
and proceeded to handcuff Larissa
and they charged her with domestic battery
and took her to jail.
(SIGHS)
She was angry, upset at me
but when she knew that she was going to jail, she started to cry.
It broke my heart, again.
(MOBILE PHONE RINGING)
It's really hard for me to have to call my mother
and tell her that Larissa is back in jail.
You called? Hey, Mom, how are you doing?
What's going on? Got some bad news. What?
Larissa was arrested, again.
(DEBBIE SPEAKING)
Well, we were arguing and things escalated,
and the police were called.
I have no idea.
They charged her with domestic battery.
Not until her bail has been posted.
Her case has to go in front of a judge, tomorrow morning, I think.
Wow. Right now, I can't do anything.
But once I know more,
I can post her bail or talk to the lawyer again.
Larissa has to spend the night in jail
and tomorrow, her case will go in front of a judge.
The judge will set the bail and if the bail is several thousand dollars
I don't know if I can afford it, I have some savings
but I also don't own anything of significant value
to post as collateral for bail, so... I don't know what I'm gonna do.
I don't want Larissa to spend months in jail
but it's a waiting game now until her bail has been set.
Neither can I.
Maybe I didn't know her, either.
I really thought that since the trial was concluded,
we could start over. And for a while we were, we were happy, we laughed,
we went to counselling, we did things but...
..I can see now that our relationship is not where I thought it was.
I love Larissa but apparently that's not enough.
I'm sorry, too. I mean, this has been one of the hardest days of my life.
I'm not sure what's gonna happen next.
I love you, Mom.
Bye. (PHONE BEEPS)
I have lot of concerns right now.
Since this is her second charge,
I don't know if she's gonna be deported, I don't know
if her bail's gonna be like $10,000. I don't know anything.
I don't really know if Larissa even wants to be married to me any more.
I don't know how she's feeling right now.
I just hope that she's OK in prison.
Oh, a cat.
Thank you.
One mojito... (SPEAKING SPANISH)
(PEDRO SPEAKING)
I know you want me to try to be friends with your family
but what good would it be if I am friends with your sister
and your mom, but I'm not even good with my husband?
Pedro's sister and I have never been friends,
because of the hurtful things she's said to me, done to me,
said about my family in the past, before she even met them.
If anybody needs to take the blame for what happened between Pedro and my family,
it's Nicole because she came from the DR with her bad attitude,
and if it wasn't for her
there would've been nothing to argue about that night.
Hello. Hello.
OK. Sure, we can talk and we can fix the problem.
Pedro came back to the hotel with me last night
but tonight he needs to show me more.
He needs to have my back because he doesn't stand up for me
in any situation when it comes to his sister.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
OK.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
What's your problem with me?
Well, the last time I saw you, you were on top of my brother
scratching and biting him.
I am your wife, and every...
No. I am your wife and you don't care about me.
You don't even... (SPEAKING SPANISH)
Stop talking about my family. Talk to me.
I've never done anything to you.
Pedro's sister is in my face,
with her ugly-ass outfit.
She's definitely not here to smoothen things over between us.
I'm like, "Why am I even here?"
And Pedro just sits by and watches.
Like, I don't know why I expected him to do anything.
This is that same, we get (BLEEP)
that Pedro always pulls when he is in front of his family.
No.
What?
Oh, (BLEEP). No.
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(SPEAKING SPANISH)
Oh, OK.
(NICOLE SPEAKING)
She told me that I don't deserve you. Did you hear her?
It's not my duty to change her mind! No, no, no...
To make her think that I deserve you. No, no, no...
Pedro wants for me to apologise to Nicole,
but he should have put his sister in check
the moment she stomped over to the table
and put her finger in my face.
So, I don't owe her anything.
How about your sister apologise to me?
That's the crazy part. You believe everything that your sister says
but you don't believe anything that your wife says.
If your sister says that your wife said something, you're ready to stand up for her
and come here and get an apology for her
but you can't even do that for me.
I wanna fix with you.
I feel like he doesn't care about me, so what am I fighting for?
When I come to him about something that his sister has done to me,
he can't even get me my apology so why am I...
Why is he trying to get me to apologise to her, for something I didn't do?
How about all the times that his sister has talked behind my back?
How about the time when his sister told me, my hair was ugly
and she was just so mean to me.
I mean, there's things that were not even on the camera,
that you guys don't even know about, what about those times?
He didn't even... He didn't get an apology for me then.
It's not fair.
I mean, my marriage is over. That's it.
(SOBBING) And I don't wanna film any more.
(SOBBING)
Oh, wow. Wow, this is so cool.
This is beautiful. Well, we are in the penthouse.
Oh, wow. Oh, that's awesome.
Yeah, it's so pretty.
Becky does photography
and she offered to give me a maternity photo shoot,
so today I am meeting up with her and my mom
to take some wonderful photos.
(CAMERA SHUTTER CLICKING)
Oh, it's stunning.
I'm feeling really excited
and really sexy to take these photos right now.
What a great shot. So good.
This look, I like.
I haven't really seen Becky since the baby shower.
I really just want today to be about the maternity shoot
and I hope my mom and Becky are not upset with me
about how Andrei treated Jenn.
Elizabeth, I've been meaning to talk to you since the baby shower.
Andrei just totally attacked Rebecca
and I just thought that was so uncalled for.
She did a lot of hard work to get the house ready, all the food,
his whole thing was, why are you inviting Jenn?
I mean, why wouldn't she be there? She's your sister.
He just hold grudges.
What he did was so selfish, it wasn't about him
not approving of the guest list.
But you know what, it's my (BLEEP)-ing house.
It's Becky's house. Exactly. I can invite anybody I want.
I mean, seriously though, who goes to someone's house and says,
"Why didn't you send me the guest list first?"
Maybe it's a cultural thing.
In Moldova, do they call their family member up and say,
"Don't invite so and so to your house?"
I don't know, but we don't do that here.
And I don't like him being divisive
between you and your sisters, or anybody in the family.
And then, I don't even think he even told Rebecca "Thank you,"
for having such a wonderful baby shower for you at her home.
That honestly, Libby, made me feel differently about Andrei,
it really did, and it made me view him like
who the (BLEEP) do you think you are?
I agree. I said the same thing to him,
you know, I said it's not fair
and I know how hard that she worked to put it on and it was at her house.
It doesn't make any sense at all, none.
Becky's telling me that she feels disrespected by Andrei
and this is the one time where I am defenceless,
like, I can't defend him, because I agree with her.
Andrei needs to adjust to our culture here in America.
And how our family dynamic is, here in America.
I don't know what it's like in Moldova
but if that's the way that it is there,
it doesn't mesh well here.
Those are awesome. This is so cool.
That's amazing. Thank you, sister.
You're welcome. Gorgeous. So pretty.
RUSS: Hey, mi amor. Hey, baby.
Ready for your mom? Yeah, I'm so excited.
I'm so ready to have her here.
My mom finally is coming today. I cannot wait.
I was really nervous because I know how hard the process can be,
but as soon as I find out that she got her visa,
I was crying, like, I was so excited.
Like, this is amazing. This is the best gift ever.
You know. Yeah.
Yeah.
My mom has never travelled out of Colombia
so it's overwhelming but it's gonna be so helpful to have my mom here
because there is so many things that I don't know what to do.
There's gonna be a lot of Spanish in the house, with my mom.
We're just gonna need a translator.
I'm excited for Pao. I am excited for her mom to be here
and to meet the baby when he arrives.
But what I'm most worried about
is the fact that it's Pao and her mother
so I am outnumbered. And...
it's the Colombian way or there's no way.
I know, she's landing, like, right now.
(PAOLA SPEAKING)
Yay. So excited.
Oh, there's people rolling in. Yeah.
I'm so nervous.
(SIGHS)
OK, this is stressful.
I'm just as anxious as you now.
Everybody just coming out. Where is my mom?
Mi amor, I see her. I see her.
Mommy.
Gladys. Mommy.
(LAUGHS GLEEFULLY)
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
(GLADYS SPEAKING)
(LAUGHS)
(RUSS SPEAKING)
I can see that my wife is extremely happy, I really can
and I'm happy for her, I am.
And you know what, it's good to see my mother-in-law here
and she's gonna be here to support Pao. Yeah.
I am really happy for that. So it's good, it's a blessing.
Now, see, her bail amount is $1,000.
I don't have the money.
The only other solution is for Larissa to simply wait in jail.
If you leave here tonight, that's it.
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What's up, man?
Yeah, I mean, at the baby shower the other day
was a little bit crazy I hear.
Thomas, Rebecca's husband asked me to meet up with him.
Becky told me that... you weren't too nice.
I wasn't happy to hear that.
Yeah. What happened?
She is your wife's sister,
they grew up together, they are best friends.
Don't you think that at some point,
maybe Libby and you would regret if Jenn wasn't there?
I mean, obviously Jenn wanted to be there, she came.
It was just not the right time and place to do that, right?
She's the one throwing the party, right? Yeah.
She's going out to make it special for you guys.
You know, like...
OK? But in the future I would appreciate you reaching out to me
so I don't have to reach out and have to have this conversation.
Yes, yes.
Don't make it harder than it is either on yourself, right?
It's a big family. Sometimes you gotta learn to,
you take the high road instead of maybe reacting like you did.
You know, take a chill pill sometimes, all right?
My advice on that, I'll just tell you.
Hard work over here goes a long way, and I know you can do that.
Your paperwork is where it needs to be so you can go out,
go be who you wanna be, and then,
when they don't have that on you and that'll make you feel better.
Obviously, cos I've been here longer, I'm established at what I'm doing.
Yeah. And I do my thing.
I mean, I don't go to every family event.
Right now, everything for you there's no separation.
You're just in the circle of... Libby's working for her dad,
and you got all this in one little pot.
I mean, go do your own stuff now.
Yeah.
Obviously, it's a very close-knit family and everyone has their place.
And he's obviously a very, you know, strong-headed guy.
But gotta come in and take a step back and look at everything else that's going on.
Can't just come in and make it "My way or the highway."
It's probably the European in me
that I'd rather talk it out with you than just bear a grudge.
(BOTH LAUGHING)
(SIGHS)
Larissa and I got into a huge fight yesterday
and she was arrested for a second time for domestic violence.
And I have no idea who called the police.
I don't know if it was someone online
because Larissa went on social media asking for help.
At this point, it's been over 12 hours since Larissa was arrested.
This morning, I found out online that
Larissa's bail was set at $1,000.
I mean, I don't have money right now.
If Larissa had her wedding ring I could potentially use that as collateral,
but Larissa flushed her wedding ring down the toilet.
So I'm going to a bail bondsman to help me get my wife out of jail.
I don't know if I'm mad at Larissa.
I don't think she meant for all this to happen the way it did.
But regardless,
I do love Larissa and I will do everything I can to help her.
I thought we were behind all this.
I'm worried now that this is her second offence
and she might be deported.
SARITA: Hi. Hello. How can I assist you?
I need to bail my wife out of jail. Oh, OK.
This is terrifying for me.
I've never been in this situation before.
The first time Larissa was arrested she was released without bail
so I didn't think it would come to this.
So, how it works is
right now I'm going to give you a packet for you to fill out
and once you fill it out then we can go and post bond for her.
OK. I'm going to need your ID, please.
OK. I'm gonna take you back over here to see Mr Tony.
OK. OK.
Mr Tony, I have Mr Colt.
How you doing, sir? Pleasure.
I'm gonna go in and make a copy of the ID.
OK, thank you. All right.
I see you're bailing out your wife. Yes. OK.
Do you know her charges? Domestic battery.
Domestic, OK.
Now, I'm gonna ask you a couple of maybe personal questions,
but it's for the safety of yours as well as mine, OK?
I understand. Um...
Is this your first domestic?
Um, no. It's not? No, unfortunately.
Her case was dismissed.
She had one previously and it was dismissed? Yes. Mm-hm.
Was it a domestic issue or...?
Yes. It was? OK.
Was any weapons involved? Anything like that? No weapons.
Does she keep anything? Nothing.
Just in case if we have to come and pick her up
or anything like that. She doesn't have any weapons of any kind. OK.
So, right now it says her hearing is on Tuesday,
but if she's being bailed she doesn't have to go to that. How's that work?
Well, it's up to the court to decide.
Once I go post her bail I will have all the information.
And if she do not make it to her court date
the judge will issue a warrant out for her.
Which will mean I will have to come and look for her
and get her back into custody.
And I'll be contacting you, too. OK.
We do not want that to happen. No, sir.
Sounds good.
If Larissa doesn't go to court,
Mr Tony's gonna come after me for money.
And that would be terrible.
But the only other solution I have
is for Larissa to simply wait in jail until she goes in front of her judge.
And I don't want anything bad to happen to her.
Now, see, her bail amount, um, is $1,000. Mm-hm.
For me to post her bail would be 15% of that,
which is $150 plus $50 for the court's fee.
OK. So it'd be a total of $200.
Finding out that the bail was only $200 really puts my mind at ease.
I was afraid that I wasn't going to be able to bail out Larissa tonight.
$200 is still a lot, but it's a lot better than $1,000.
Here you go. Thank you, sir.
I'll write you a receipt.
Once I post her bond
the jail here, you know, they take between 12 and 24 hours.
And since it's in the evening, it would be either later on tonight
or first thing in the morning before she'd be released.
So any time between, like, 9am and 6am or 8am? Yes, sir. OK.
Is she gonna be upset with you cos she's in that situation right now?
Have you talked to her? I have not talked to her.
OK. But I guess I'll find out.
Yes, you will, very soon.
If you don't mind taking a picture right here with this sign.
And you have to hold that. So that in case
I don't know where she is, Mr Tony will be calling you.
Now that I've bailed her out
I'm gonna camp out in front of the detention centre
because I love her,
and I wanna be there for her when she gets out.
ELIZABETH: The baby is due in just a few weeks,
but right now, the relationship
with my family and Andrei, it's not great.
Yeah, I mean, we all need to get together.
I want Andrei to apologise to Jenn.
He will apologise to Jenn. So today, we're having brunch.
Baby, you can't judge her.
You guys are still getting to know each other.
I know.
But, like, you have a long time.
I agree.
I agree, she should a little bit.
What can you do to make it better?
Andrei needs to find a way to get along with Jenn because
we're having a child soon,
and Jenn's gonna be in the baby's life.
I just need everybody to just let go of the drama.
Today, I'm getting breakfast with Libby and Andrei.
He had an issue with me coming to my sister's baby shower.
And I don't know where all of this aggression and anger comes from,
but I don't want my sister, like, stressed out.
She's pregnant, about to give birth.
I want her to know that her family is behind her
and we're on the same team here. We're not against each other,
we should all be on the same team.
Hello. Hello. Take a seat.
Don't tell me to take a seat. I do what I want. You should know this by now.
Yeah. Oh, goodness.
What's going on? You tell me.
What do you mean? You tell me what happened at the baby shower
because you got into it with my sister.
Why would I not come to my sister's shower?
It's my party now.
No, it's not your party. It's for her and the baby. It is. It's not for you.
Jenn has been talking (BLEEP) lately about me...
But she needs to keep her nose away from my business.
Listen, the fact was you've been talking (BLEEP).
Because I think that your actions
and the way that you've been treating my entire family is (BLEEP).
You don't have to get in my stuff. What do you mean?
Like, I just said you're fighting
with my dad, you were fighting with Becky at the shower.
Because you're all full of (BLEEP).
Why are we all...? So we're all wrong.
You're the common denominator in all of this, yet it's all of us that are wrong.
I think his view points are somewhat backwards.
And the fact that he's saying to get out of their life,
and it's like, "Wait a minute. I didn't come into your life.
You came into my life." So he needs to get that through his head.
You need to, like, just mend things with my entire family
because of the way that you've entered this family, and stuff that we've
only done to try and help you guys
you're so, like, dismissive and ungrateful,
and unappreciative, and just cause issues. Like, for what?
What you don't understand is that I don't care about your relationship.
That is between you guys. I'm not involved.
But what I do care about is me and her relationship
and you're not gonna interject yourself and try to keep me from her
because that's not gonna happen.
It was between me and you. The fact is we're-
I'm gonna do this (BLEEP)-ing ping-pong match with you, OK? Like, let's move on.
The fact is- The fact is you've talked enough. Shut up.
(CHUCKLES) Seriously. Stop being immature and just get over it. OK?
Andrei and Jenn are just going at it
and I get why Andrei is upset,
but, like, Andrei not only didn't apologise to Jenn,
but he continued to argue with her. Like, that's not why we're here.
I'm really hoping that when I have the baby
it will kind of bring everybody together and everybody can just start fresh.
I think a healthy solution to all of this
is for everybody to just set their own boundaries with each other,
don't be in everybody's business so much.
You know, we'll see each other at events and family occasions.
I'm glad to see her once in a year. We'll have dinners.
Seriously, I'm gonna put duct tape over your mouth if you don't stop.
(CHUCKLING) We need to set boundaries.
And show respect for others. You guys need to just
slowly, you know, find your relationship
or whatever you need to do.
Let's move on.
It takes two to tango.
Yeah, I have to go. I have to get back to my amazing life.
Bye. Any time, big guy.
Yeah, bye-bye. Bye. Call me later.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
If you leave here tonight, that's it. X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=LOCAL:00:00:00.000,MPEGTS:0
Uh...
(SIGHS HEAVILY)
CHANTEL: He's being so selfish.
And wants me to apologise to Nicole
and I'm like, "When I came to you
and was telling you all the terrible things that she did to me in America,
where was my apology then?"
If you leave tonight it's not going to fix anything.
If you leave here tonight, that's it.
You're the one who said you wanted to leave.
Yeah.
Your sister has had a problem with me from day one.
She had like a (BLEEP) about me when I first met her.
Baby, when are you gonna fight for my apology?
Are you gonna fight this hard for my apology? Nobody... OK.
You don't care about me.
I came here for you and all you care about is
pushing me into your family's face.
All you care about is justice for your family.
You don't wanna fight for my justice.
You don't even believe me that anything-
OK.
Do it the same way.
I never said that.
(ELEVATOR BELL DINGS)
It's not a very good feeling...
that he would put me in the situation that he did tonight.
Try to force me to apologise for something I didn't do.
It's not the husband that I thought that I married.
Right now, I think I'm just gonna sleep...
..and put it out of my mind as much as possible.
And tomorrow I'm gonna figure out what to do.
(PAOLA SPEAKING SPANISH)
Then you have your medicine ball.
My mum arrived from Colombia yesterday.
When I told her that I was going to have a home birth she was not happy.
She doesn't agree with me, she doesn't approve
and she doesn't feel that it's safe to have a baby at home.
OK, time me. Ready? OK.
(PAOLA SPEAKING SPANISH)
(PUMP WHIRRING)
You know, having a home birth
it's all on me now.
I need to get everything ready. I need to get this pool filling up.
I have no idea how long this is really going to take.
It could take five minutes, could be ten minutes.
I wanna test out the pool to make sure that
it's gonna hold air, it's gonna hold the water.
And that all's gonna go well because I don't want,
suddenly in the middle of the birth, there's water all over the floor
and we're trying to scramble for a plan B.
(SPEAKING SPANISH) Six and a half minutes.
(PAOLO SPEAKING SPANISH)
OK, ready?
(GLADYS SPEAKING SPANISH) (BLEEP)
(PAOLO SPEAKING SPANISH)
(GLADYS SPEAKING SPANISH)
OK. (SIGHS)
My mom is driving me crazy because she doesn't understand
why I need a mid-wife and not a doctor.
But I really was thinking that my mom is going to support me
and is going to be more open-minded about this.
And it's making me feel, to be honest, upset.
(SPEAKING SPANISH)
I'm really concerned that, like, when the time comes
and my baby's ready to make his big appearance
my mom is going to be a problem because
she is making me frustrated. She's making me nervous.
And now, instead of me worrying about, like,
having a calm and natural birth
I'm gonna be worrying about what my mom is going through, and I don't need that.
Larissa and I got in a huge fight yesterday
and she was arrested a second time yesterday for domestic violence.
The police took her to jail and I paid $200
to a bail bondsman for Larissa's release.
Right now, I'm going to the detention centre
hoping that my wife will be released soon.
I don't want my wife being released downtown Las Vegas
and it's 3:00 in the morning. I wanna be there for her when she gets out.
Our marriage barely survived Larissa's first arrest,
but I said, "OK, well,
go to court, we'll get this dismissed, we can start over."
And just when I thought Larissa and I were doing better,
our relationship was finally healing, this happened.
I haven't talked to Larissa since she was arrested
and I have no idea how she'll feel when she gets out.
She might be angry at me.
It is 11:30pm on a Sunday.
I am waiting outside the detention centre
for my wife to be released.
I have no idea how long I will be here for.
The bail bondsman told me that the release is kind of
up in the air. It could be 12 hours, it could be 18 hours.
There just really isn't any way to tell.
Larissa doesn't have her phone, doesn't have any money.
And it's not the most safe area.
I wanna make sure she comes home safe tonight.
I'm really scared for Larissa.
I don't know in what state she is,
I don't know if she's gonna be released soon.
Right now, it's 1:32 in the am.
I don't know when she's gonna come out. I feel like...
I mean, I think it's gonna be soon.
But maybe not.
I'm worried. I'm tired. I am exhausted.
This is the second time I've had to deal
with police and arrests, and I...
..would be happy to see Larissa walking outside,
free, and be with me again.
But I don't know what this means for our marriage
or her immigration status.
I just really wanna get Larissa out of jail.
And the doors are opening
and my wife might be coming out.
And a car. Son of a bitch.
And it's two o'clock. I've been here for, like, three hours.
I have a feeling that my night has just begun.
I don't know what's gonna happen.
I just wanna see my wife again.
(SIGHS) It's gonna be a long night.
NARRATOR: Next time on 90 Day Fiance, Happily Ever After?
It was a setup. They arranged to get Pedro to the US.
Who?
We don't have $600 to buy this ticket.
You don't sabotage me like over 600 bucks.
I mean, that's half of our rent.
You're being (BLEEP).
You could've been killed, she got arrested.
I could've been shot. This is the final straw.
I want her gone.
(PAOLA MOANING)
(GLADYS SPEAKING SPANISH)
(PAOLA MOANING LOUDLY) Oh, my God!
ASHLEY: You're done. If you show up at my house,
the police will be waiting to deport your ass.
He was using me. And he (BLEEP)-ing got away with it for a long time.
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